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Im a little nervous...BUT! Im back out there in the game, looking for someone to have fun. This is taking a lot of courage on my behalf because of how badly I was burned in my last relationship. Im very excited, Im kinda into a guy now and I think he feels the same.

IM WEARING CLOTHES FROM AEROPOSTALE AND RUE21 NOW!!!!YAY! I bought an XL dress at OldNavy where as I wouldnt have been able to find a DRESS to fit me there.....Anyways...

With me moving soon Im not going to settle with one guy or anything, just going on little dates here and there and having a blast now that I have some confidence about myself!

...This is going to be an adventure....but a fun one!

*EDIT* I have bought 2 BIKINIS! YES bikinis, not tankinis, BIKINIS!!!!YES!!!!

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Hey Jodie!

Ive been wondering about ya.

Glad to see you around.

Congrat's on the bikini thang. Post us a pic in it, please? Us old fat farts need something to get our butts in gear. :biggrin1:

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Jodie how exciting, I can't wait also to get back dating............and feeling more better about myself..........so do you have any dates planned yet.

BTW, I am Fiona 5 weeks post-op!!:)

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Knock em dead Jodie! Woot!

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ACTUALLY!!..........Im kinda interested in this guy and Im gonna go out with him this weekend. Hes super hot! lol! TALL! Blond hair Blue eyes, tan..........the works...............THE BEST PART! HIS COUSIN HAS HAD LAP-BAND!!!! SO HE KNOWS ABOUT IT, NOT TO MENTION THAT HES TOTAL SENSITIVE TO THE FACT THAT IM OVERWEIGHT! Sorry, I got excited! lol! Hes a blast and fun to talk to. I spoke with him Tuesday night until midnight just about nothings, just having a conversation......................................Hes pretty awesome, Im waiting on some signs to see if he likes me too....Either way I can still have some fun before I move

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I weigh 204lbs but i dunno how to post pics so maybe Ill make anothe myspace one day, and give yall the url

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