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There is nothing about WLS that doesn't translate to good wood.

It's an awesome side effect of the surgery.

There is zero downside over traveling to new depths, opening doors even wider and visiting longer. It puts the happy in Happy Time.

Not much more to say other than THANK YOU for this new superpower. I can't say I'll always use it for good and not for evil.

Small scale evil.........

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Since this is just us guys here

pffft..it's never just us guys in the guys room

Sorry, I forgot to turn on my <Sarcasm> tag on before I posted :-)

In my mind, it is fine for the women to come by and read or post in this forum. It is silly to limit any forum. However, I don't believe a woman should ever get insulted or offended by what we guys might say here. Its a double sided edge when you come in here. :D

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Brand spanking new member and I am very happy to see a guys area ! Being a big dude you have these questions and the answers here have all been great !! My surgery is slated for May and I can not be more excited to shrink and grow at the same time !! ;)

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Sam, I'm with you. And i can only hope all these positive wood comments are true!!!!!! lol I'm going for bypass Apr 7th . Doing the liquid pre-op liver shrink now. I have lost 10lbs in 4 days!!!!! However I want to eat the dogs treats. Hopefully it gets a little easier!!!

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What about the ladies? What do I have to look forward to? I'm getting sleeved April 4.

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Dog treats are a good snack Rebel !! ;)

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What about the ladies? What do I have to look forward to? I'm getting sleeved April 4.

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Monie,

You will get the joy of not worrying about whether or not you will fit in that tiny seat in the theater, or whether people will comment on your size, or whether you will be able to find that outfit you like in your size.

Ooooo, you meant in a similar vein to what we guys are talking about? From what I see the women discussing, you will be able to see parts of your body "down there" that you had long ago given up hope of ever seeing again. You might even be able to groom them like you always wanted to now. You will find your time in bed more fun, without the great exertion that came with moving our larger bodies around. Your body parts overall will shrink and be more manageable.

And one last thing.....if your partner is smaller than you (Like my ex was), gone will be the ever present fear of climbing on top of them and leaving them look like Judge Doom at the end of Who Framed Roger Rabbit (He got the steamroller).

How's that?

Ron

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Sam, I'm with you. And i can only hope all these positive wood comments are true!!!!!! lol I'm going for bypass Apr 7th . Doing the liquid pre-op liver shrink now. I have lost 10lbs in 4 days!!!!! However I want to eat the dogs treats. Hopefully it gets a little easier!!!

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DadsRebel,

Trust us, it does get easier. And harder. This portion of this path you are on is a tough one, and I don't look back very fondly on those long days immediately before and after my surgery. The days immediately after the surgery are the toughest. But if you can survive the first day, the next one is easier, followed by the next one which is easier, and so on, and so on.

But I will tell you this......it has been all worth it for me. I feel better, look better and hopefully will live a longer life thanks to the changes I made in my lifestyle.

Follow your doctor's orders. Listen to your nutritionist. And keep up the exercise.....I am three years out and regularly exercise to keep the weight from ever creeping back.

Ron

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Ron

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I just got home from doing my pre-op at the hospital. In not sue which was worse, the needle into the artery or the sh#% I had yo drink while getting x-rayed. Lol. But it's over and I go for bypass next Thurs Apr 7th.

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@illailla. If you will notice the s post was started wayyyyy back in 2013 Back when the guys weren't as worried about us "girls" being in y'all site. As you can see we Use to have a great time.

This was one of my favorite post.....

By the why. Now that steph aka @@KAATNS is married again.... I think I should take over the judging responsibilities..... What do you think

@5.0junkie?

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That sounds like an offer !! ;)

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I offered back in 2013. Lol. But what had happen was.... Lol. ICame to the op a few days last and steph snagged the job from me

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You girls could have both judged !

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