I am nervous/ embarrassed to talk to my Dr. today It is the first time I am talking to her about a referral. I really hope having WLS will help my back problems I have not slept well in over a week.I have been obese most of my life but it has always been something I don't talk about. Did anyone else feel this way or am I the only one? Do you have any advice? anything I should ask her or talk to her about?

I can't imagine any doctor that would not be thrilled to see a patient be proactive about taking back his/her health. Go in with this in mind and the words will come out just fine.

Hello, your PCP has your ticket for band land. Without a medical clearance you cant have surgery. Don't be embarrassed, go for it. The more research you have the more willing your Dr will be there for you. Good luck. Im off to the hospital for surgery.

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Good luck to you. I know it has to be done and why I just feel like I a going to sound stupid. I feel like i'm in grade school all over again... Thanks so much for your well wishes and support

Nothing you share with your doctor should be embarrassing. This is a mere reflection of your feelings regarding being obese etc. As a nurse, patients who are forthcoming and confident yield the best results because they recognize that a proactive attitude can give them the success they seek. So go in there and just tell him that today is the day you want to change your life.