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Awe, I think I feel a tear coming on! Love is in the room and ready for action. Love you Janet, big cyber hug

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Thank you for not dropping me like a hot potato. ;)

Janet, I saw your ticker and realized omg you've lost 92lbs! Woohoo.. You are amazing!

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Mini, we would never drop you like a hot potato, now you did look pretty hot the other day at that wine tasting. Hubby better be looking over his shoulder, mama is looking good these days! B)

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So glad we're together!!! Carole has joined. Dee having trouble excepting invite. She's trying again tomorrow.

I can't send an invite to Dawn, it keeps saying "Member does not exist". I know she does.lol

Cawanna watching a movie with hub and joining when on her pc.

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Yeah, got everyone but Dawn. I have to copy paste her and I just got on my PC, so I can do that.

Dee, glad you found your way. I haven't her from Terri, will check with her later.

I'm really glad we can all be here together .

Got a PM from CG this am. First note was, just wanting to remain friends . "I know it puts you in a bad spot with the other (no it doesn't)

but its not about sides, its about me being comfortable talking to ppl about my private life, although I am sooooo boring its boring....

am glad you are my friend. If I tread to hard, please let me know."

I wrote back, that I would let her know and I want to stay in contact with all of you. I'm glad she understands my position. " to know me, you will find out I am a forever friend, unless you really really hurt me and that would be attacking my family".

CG wrote:

I want to remain friends with them also (never wanted anyone to get all upset)... I just wanted that group gone as T and whomever could read it and if that pissed someone off, so be it... Not my doing. But that is yall and not me. Have a great day..

I think she's pissed at me, but right now, I don't care and like you all, no room for drama. Life is too short.

I will be busy the next two days, moving ange & evan. So don't think I jumped ships.lol

Love you and thanks again for your support.

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Happy moving Day Audry and Evan !!!

and just think of the cals you are burning today Janet ....

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Happy day to us all! Together again! Woohoo!

Janet, I hope CG is not permanently mad at you. I know how bad that feels.

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Thank you for not dropping me like a hot potato. ;)

Janet, I saw your ticker and realized omg you've lost 92lbs! Woohoo.. You are amazing!

Mini... glad to be with you again!

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Will the computer genius who told me how to get this to work on my iPhone, please tell me again?

Thanks :wub:

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Terri, CG is not mad at me at all. We have an understanding. I respect her decisions, she respects mine. We still talk.

I hope you can understand my position too. To me, nothing has changed.

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Hi to everyone...and thank you Dawn for literally showing me the way here...someone, anyone, please like my post so I can find you all again!

Janet, you are a kind soul, and understanding beyond words. And bless you for that!

I really would prefer to not ever hear anything from Virginia again...j/s. My perspective stems from my profession, and life is too short to allow others who have little to no regard for the impact of their actions on others, and then place blame on others are are just not my type.

I don't like to write anything negative about others, but the events we have just been through we're unnecessary.

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We spent 7 hours with the kitchen designer today...now we have some decisions to make. So many, many options...and this will be my "forever" kitchen, so I need to make choices carefully.

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