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Well 2 months ago I had my consultation with my surgeon, I am 5"3 and I weigh 210... I have pcos, high blood pressure, severe psoriatic arthritis. Well my dr said I was a great candidate, and gave me a list of drs to see including a psych eval, a visit to my primary care dr also getting a letter from her, a pulmonoligist a nutritionist and also go for an upper ugi swollow study. I have completed all of these. Appointments and have faxed everything to him. My next appointment is this Monday, I'm curious to know what this appt is for and when do they send out my paper work to the insurance. I'm so worried I won't get approved... I have horizon nj direct access. Anyone know about this insurance? What comes next? I want to have this surgery soon!

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My insurance required all of that as well, but I was required to see the nutritionist once a month for 4 months as the teach you how you will have to live, think, and eat with the band. This appointment will likely be a final consult before they submit all the paper work to insurance. It can take 6 to 8 weeks for approval. Be prepared for another 4 weeks for surgery. Your surgeon won't put you on their schedule until you have been approved. Most are a month or so out on their bookings. I had your basic stats when I started and hit my goal weight 2 weeks ago (7 months post op). Best of luck.

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Hi!

I had those to complete as well. I was penciled in on my surgeon's operating calendar after I completed all of those and had my 3rd visit with him. My surgery is 4/29. My insurance (Aetna) required 3 visits to my surgeon, for 3 months. Once that was completed they sent in my paperwork for the insurance. Hoping to hear great news next week. I went Monday to see my surgeon and on Friday I started my pre-op diet. liquids. UGH. It's been a tough 2 days. I know I can make it though, just like to complain here and there on the way!

They told me that Aetna takes 1 to 2 weeks for approval, that has been their experience there at their office. So we shall see!

GOod luck to you!

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Thanks for your replys! Im just so nervous that for some reason I'm going to have trouble getting approved, but I can't wait! I'm actually looking forward to the pre op diet, once I start that I'm on my way to my new life style! Good luck with your surgery on the 29th! Let me know how it goes! Does anyone kno sum good Protein shakes I should try? Best of luck to everyone!

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Oh Jona, great work what was your goal weight? If you don't mind me asking? And if you have some good recommendations on Protein Shakes?

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Please dont drive yourself crazzy worrying about what ifs and what might be. Chances are you are a good candidate. Try to keep busy and please keep us posted!!

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My goal size was more relevant to my than weight. I wanted to get to a stable 145 to 150 and be in a size 8. Both are achieved. I only had Protein Shakes for the preop. I don't care for sweets so I only have food I can chew now. A lot of protein:)

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Hely, thanks so much, your right I'm driving myself crazy getting stressed out over this which is not good! I'm trying to keep busy not thinking about it, I'm just excited to start this new journey in my life! You look awesome congrats!

Jona, I'm thinking my goal is around 130 to 140 would be ideal for me, but I also know it's going to take alot of time and hard work but I'm ready for it! Your lucky sweets aren't your thing! Lol there definitely mine! I'm going to have to conquer my addiction to anything sweet! Haha but I'm ready! I tried one type of Protein drink from GNC n it left almost a grainy texture in my mouth, gross... But anyway great Job meeting your goals! its really inspiring! I'll keep you all posted on my journey and you all keep me posted!

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