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Russia- frozen gonads he he he He got what he deserves and you deserved better. Yeah for young men.....LOL ouch

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If your happy- Than I am happy for you!!!

I too am divorced. My X-ass was 5 yrs younger & now the man who is making me smile ALOT more is 7 yrs younger!. I think its so funny that all I have ever wanted was an older man & all that are ever attracted to me are younger!? Strange- 'cause I am not a sugar momma;0)

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Happy & sad for you, LB! You seem to have a great view of it, though, focusing on the renewal & rebirth! Go get 'em! :(

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I feel way better already.. Just gettin my feet wet...

I wish you all the happiness in this world... 20 huh - yeah I remember the days.. Oh better get back to work...

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Congratulations. It's never good when marriages don't work out, but sometimes divorce is the best thing. :bananadoggywow: I know that my family is better for my parents' divorce. *hugs*

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Awww, Leener. I'm sorry your marriage ended up not being a good one. It's dissappointing and difficult, but you are fine and I'm happy for you now. (((hugs))) and embrace the future!!!! It's getting brighter by the day! God bless you!

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Congratulations on taking action to get out of a bad marriage. You seem to have moved on and handled it well. I wish you happiness with the new man in your life.

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If you're happy and you know it clap your hands!

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LOL ANd Vladivlastock Russia too. Even Russian immigrants give me a look when I say he went there. hehehe

Downside is he has a lot of money (left me with nothing) so I am sure he is living high on the hog (for Vladilaskok)

I did some emotional eating yesterday and gained a pound. :-(

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leener this is a good thing. that judge has granted you the wish of being able to recreate your being, your soul, everything about you. My mother just celebrated her 2 years being divorced, and she has become a completely different person. She has grown up, taken charge, made her self extremely successful, and taken risks she was never allowed to take! She still hasn't gotten another man tho. :grouphug: I keep hoping she would find a 20-something year old too just for some kicks LOL

I am glad you are happy. Stop the emotional eating, and Celebrate by doing something really special for yourself. A new outift? A day at the spa? A roadtrip somewhere special?

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Yes but you've got a 20 something year old. Allow him to make the pain go away.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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