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Im starting to feel depressed four more days till my surgery n i start having a hunger fit!!!. What did. I just do i ran to my kitchen upset so hungry pulled out some sugar free pudding my van muscle milk n a scope of muscle milk cake batter in dove in two spoons. My daughter says mommy i want cheese fries i fixed it i began to pick up the fry placed n my mouth began to chew n mind said to me dont do it rhonda spit it out dont cheat u got this far i began to gag didnt continue whats wrong im so fustrated im tired of these damn broc Soup n Protein Shakes i wanna cry this is what i want WORD OF ENCOURAGEMENT PLEASE!!! I WANT THIS CHANGE WHY NOW HAS MY MIND STARTING TODO THIS TO ME

IM MY OWN MOTIVATION

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Just keep holding on! You only have four more days. You can do this, don't give up!!!

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It's difficult to change your food habits after having them for so long. We didn't become overweight over night. This is a life style change for all of us. It's not easy but hang in there. You'll be banded soon enough & well on your way.

Be patient, and keep yourself busy. It'll all work out....

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I promise it will get easier, just get over this small hump and you'll be golden :) You can do it!! I went from fast food practically every day to getting a new love of cooking my own food and eating healthy, sounds corny now, but I promise it will happen.

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Keep typing, you can't eat when your hands are busy!

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The last couple days were the hardest for me. I kept myself super busy and before I knew it i was at the hospital being prepped. YOU CAN DO IT!

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DANG. I WISH I WAS THAT CLOSE TO SURGERY. to havin it all over! Im jealous!!!!!!!. Ive got to do a stupid 6 month diet plan first and I havent EVEN STARTED THAT YET. Hang in there, your almost there, so dont blow it, as this is a temporary feeling, and it will pass. Do some thing anything to get your mind off food. grab hubby and walk a mile, ANYTHING! Look at fat pictures on the net! Good Luck. I AM SOOoooo JEALOUS, OMG! DONT , I SAID DONT BLOW THIS!!! Sandy

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Thank you all and u will get to this point before you no it my dinner was great chicken broth with french onions n green onions of course i removed them.lol gn

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You CAN and you WILL do this! The pro-op diet and the diet 2-3 weeks after sugery are the hardest part physically... Mentally, it was torture for me! You are not alone in this battle! I am now on the "other side" down 30+ lbs (surgery was Nov 13th) and I don't regret a single thing about it! I still battle head hunger sometimes and struggle some at work (restaurant industry!) since I'm around food ALL day! This too soon shall pass!

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Yes nessa u r right

IM MY OWN MOTIVATION

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TWO DAYS TO GO! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!! BOTTOM OF MY HEART heart heart! Good luck to you, and it will be sooooooo fantastic to have this part behind you and a totally new set of stuff to complain about. OH YEAH, Im THERE with ya. Im JUST LIKE THAT! WOO HOO< and a tooty toot toot! Happy dance for ya, shakin my groove thang! OOOO Yeah ooooyeah , hot dang, two friggin days left! AWESOME LADY! Hugs(friendly, I only swing straight!) but live and let live is dis gals motto! Sandy

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Lol sandy cheesy face thanks for the girlybandster dance lets keep eo posted YEAH TWO MORE DAYS UHOH UHOH shake YA BOOTY shake YA BOOTY YEAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH ALRIGHT ALRIGHT Soup FOR dinner Soup FOR dinner

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MsRhonda, you can do this, you are almost there!

2 more days and yo will be on the other side!

Good luck to you!

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Yes thank u smooches to all

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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