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Hi, I'm Shanitha. I am 33, single, childless, and ready to shed 100+ lbs. I was looking at the sleeve but my insurance won't cover it. Didn't want the bypass b/c didn't want things rerouted. In addition to the sleep apnea I've developed, I have lupus, fibromyalgia, and pulmonary hypertension...taking various meds have helped pack.on the pounds and I hurt too much to exercise like I should. Basically, I'm tired of being the fat girl and want to experience life on the healthier, slimmer side. Here to be a sponge and soak up all helpful info!

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Welcome Shanitha! You've come to the right place to soak up knowledge. I'm glad you're doing that.

The more you learn before surgery, the easier it will be to understand after surgery.

You'll also find a lot of inspiration and some good old joking around.

Post often and ask questions.

Best wishes on your journey!

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I wish I was beginning this journey at 33! Smart woman. I haven't gotten my band yet but can't wait. But I am 15yrs behind you so I'll have to catch up and make up for lost time.

Ready set GO!!

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Welcome Shanitha! You've come to the right place to soak up knowledge. I'm glad you're doing that.

The more you learn before surgery, the easier it will be to understand after surgery.

You'll also find a lot of inspiration and some good old joking around.

Post often and ask questions.

Best wishes on your journey!

I may just have to be disbanded from the bb club. I let my claws out at someone with a nasty attitude on a post.

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I may just have to be disbanded from the bb club. I let my claws out at someone with a nasty attitude on a post.

No, that gets you points in the club. Now I'm going to have to look for what my BBB did, I'm so proud!

Hope you didn't mess with the princess!

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Shanitha - welcome! Good for you for making this decision towards a healthier lifestyle. This forum is a great place to bounce ideas and get advice. Hope you have an amazing journey!

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Shanitha, welcome! Glad you are making the choice to become a healthier you.

Exercise is a huge part of a successful band, so please try to find the things that you can do. I too could not exercise when I started. I found that the pool was the best thing, even if you just walk in the water! Also, I spent 20 and bought a little set of pedals and started out pedaling, while sitting in a comfortable chair, for 15 minutes at a time. Now I do 60-75, even on the days that I go to the pool.

Good luck and ask as many questions as you need to!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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