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dont laugh...i am very insecure of my size (even though i am losing well in sizes)

i am going to get my hair done....in very upscale hair boutique and i am terrified

someone will laugh at me or smirk or whisper to themselves or even

someone think (what is that fat lady) doing in here....

but i am going

i am gonna put my shoulders back

got my heels on because yeah i am worth it

but still scared......

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You deserve it MORE than those who stick their noses up because you have taken charge of your life and are making positive changes. So climb in that chair shoulders straight and say I am worth it! Beside even those skinny little size 0's have crosses to bear as well. Enjoy!!!!

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Please don't feel that way...I work at an upscale salon & believe me, they all have their insecurities as well! You should walk in there & be proud of how far you've come, you're so worth it!

Big hugs to you, Carolinagirl......Please enjoy your day!

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Please don't feel that way...I work at an upscale salon & believe me, they all have their insecurities as well! You should walk in there & be proud of how far you've come, you're so worth it!

Big hugs to you, Carolinagirl......Please enjoy your day!

if i was there, you can do my hair...i know id feel more at ease...

...btw, is las vegas having an air show?

my son is going to be there with the air force...he is a crew chief on the awac......

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oooo sweetie....you go girl...Im so very happy for you and I know your gonna come out of there smiling....You sooo deserve this lil treat !!!

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You march in there, holding your head high and proud! Look how much weight you've lost already!! I mean, just think, you're 73 pounds lighter!!

One of my favorite sayings: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent".

Don't give them consent. ;)

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Do u like ur hair?

I used to have my mom cut my hair for like 10 years because I was so shy & self conscious. Have finally started going to a salon though past year and I don't give an eff anymore!

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Do u like ur hair?

I used to have my mom cut my hair for like 10 years because I was so shy & self conscious. Have finally started going to a salon though past year and I don't give an eff anymore!

i love my new hair wall.........i feel pretty again

this was good for me to go and get out and (make) myself do it

much like making myself do the pre and post op w. no cheating

i just had to do it

your words are so nice. thank you

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i love my new hair wall.........i feel pretty again

this was good for me to go and get out and (make) myself do it

much like making myself do the pre and post op w. no cheating

i just had to do it

your words are so nice. thank you

Aww good. U seem like a real sweet person & should be happy. Glad u like :)

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Carolinagirl, I'm so happy for YOU! Did you do a total makeover?

I'm not sure about Nellis having an air show but, we were certainly busy on the strip...

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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