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Is grazy how I have my husband n he don't Want support me about my surgery sometime i don't put not mind but is hard cuz tha my hubby he not eve ask me how I feel n nun.. I guess he don't care but I move followe cuz I do thing for me n make my self happy but I feel depress now tha he not around just becuz of this:(

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In my opinion, the opposite sex fears change. You know the opposite sex will look at you different. I asked my boyfriend to put his feelings aside and look at my struggle. Good luck.

As I tell my friend, I am glad the Lord takes souls and not body because mine won't be recognizable. ;)

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Not we done allready cuz he don't want me to do it :( but I go donit

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Sometimes a spouse doesn't support this decision. I think it's unfair of them to expect you to stay heavy with current or future health problems assured to arise. If someone I loved could get something done to prolong their life and prevent suffering, I would do everything in my power to make it happen.

I am sorry you are going through this.

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At first my husband encouraged me to exercise and eat healthy. Well obviously that didn't work out (after trying for yrs)... Now I have the band, 30lbs lighter, and he loves every minute of it. Just the other day he was griping because I can't finish my plate and he has been eating my food- well he has gained a good 10lbs since I was banded! lol Ya'll just keep your head up because when your looking good and feeling great they will have changed their mind about the lap band.

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Thanz girl when was ur surgery

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My husband was against it at first but once he went to the pre op classes with me he felt better. I would say it took about two to three months post op for him to see what a difference it is making in my life and health. I think a lot of men think we will leave them once we lose the weight.

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Tha good girl congratulation :)

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