Is grazy how I have my husband n he don't Want support me about my surgery sometime i don't put not mind but is hard cuz tha my hubby he not eve ask me how I feel n nun.. I guess he don't care but I move followe cuz I do thing for me n make my self happy but I feel depress now tha he not around just becuz of this:(

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In my opinion, the opposite sex fears change. You know the opposite sex will look at you different. I asked my boyfriend to put his feelings aside and look at my struggle. Good luck.

As I tell my friend, I am glad the Lord takes souls and not body because mine won't be recognizable.

Not we done allready cuz he don't want me to do it but I go donit

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Sometimes a spouse doesn't support this decision. I think it's unfair of them to expect you to stay heavy with current or future health problems assured to arise. If someone I loved could get something done to prolong their life and prevent suffering, I would do everything in my power to make it happen.

I am sorry you are going through this.

At first my husband encouraged me to exercise and eat healthy. Well obviously that didn't work out (after trying for yrs)... Now I have the band, 30lbs lighter, and he loves every minute of it. Just the other day he was griping because I can't finish my plate and he has been eating my food- well he has gained a good 10lbs since I was banded! lol Ya'll just keep your head up because when your looking good and feeling great they will have changed their mind about the lap band.

Thanz girl when was ur surgery

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My husband was against it at first but once he went to the pre op classes with me he felt better. I would say it took about two to three months post op for him to see what a difference it is making in my life and health. I think a lot of men think we will leave them once we lose the weight.

Tha good girl congratulation

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