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Delara,

I am a Christian and hell yes I have a vagina. Where is the thread? I must have missed it. I love the threads that address sex issues, as sex is real and worth talking about.

Delara - I also agree with you that if you have to see and listen to those of us who are Christians rant and rave then we too must be tolerant of those who choose to communicate in ways that might be offensive (Note: not offensive to me).

Where the hell is the naked man? Heck I wanna see that too!

I too am dissapointed because I was expecting some real XXX stuff. That is why I clicked on the well labeled thread, becuase of the XXX which of course I associate with sex, pornography, kissing, adult stuff etc.

Now seriously, I would be very offended if I opened a thread that wasn't labeled properly. However, I choose to be on this board and I choose to read what other say. I take some of what they say, I leave what I don't. WE aren't going to all agree all the time. Hell, that's life and that's what seperates the men from the boys - maturity. I love the racier threads and those brave enough to broach the subject.

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Not that time of the month for me, this has been the best thread I have followed since I started. I think occasianally it's good for everyone to blow off a little emotion and this thread has accomplished that. Hopefully everyone will be able to get over a few of the bruises that may have resulted and we can get back to talking a about sex. Or as P-Nut would say Butt-F--ing

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So much I want to add to this thread and wish I had the DeLarla guts (we need to find a way of mass producing your guts)! But all that I can muster up at this point is that Peanutbutter + nekked= Hot Damn!

I am questioning why Dawg has not added to this and the only thing I saw was that Pnut said that the two threads: Temptation and Her thread about eating everything and then bitching about it were pretty much the same thread. Dawg told me that they talked it over before he started his temptation post and decided it wasn't the same thing.

I can sum this up with one quote to also include the poop shoot: Opinions are like arsholes, everybody has one.

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My take on the sex discussion is this.....

1. If you want to read it...read it....if not...go read another post.

2. As long as we keep the discussion from being too pornographic what's the big deal? I actually like to hear what everyone has to say on this subject because let's face it...as you lose weight your sex life is bound to improve! And I like to know if what I am experiencing is similar to what other bandsters are going through. (Maybe emotionally that is....I don't need to know ALL your dirty little secrets....he he he).

3. There is always at least one sore loser in every bunch so why let them ruin our day?

: )

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I seriously have to keep going back to MY page 1 to figure why I started this thread???

I think it is a thread for everyone's personal bitch session???? :D

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This thread has got me all hot and bothered. I think I am going to give my husband some much needed attention, as it seems I am a bit more attractive to him since losing 18 lbs. BTW I lost the weight due to this surgical procedure I had -- the lap band.

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"Bottled Balls" That will be the name of Delara's mass produced guts, nobody better steal this before I can get it patended!

It just popped into my head, I had to post! We will make millions!! MILLIONS!

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This thread has got me all hot and bothered. I think I am going to give my husband some much needed attention, as it seems I am a bit more attractive to him since losing 18 lbs. BTW I lost the weight due to this surgical procedure I had -- the lap band.

???Hot and Bothered???? As in Horny??? What part did that for you?? Tell me, tell me, so I can read it!!!

:D

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