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Surgery on 9/23 in Fort Worth. Anyone in the area looking for someone to share this journey with? I'm 50, married, LVN and no one at work knows I'm doing this. So can't really share with them.

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HI! I am going for my 1st consultation with the surgeon. According to my PC I should be a shoe-on for insurance approval so not worried there. Just scared in general lol

I am in Arlington, actually 1 1/2 miles west of the Ft Worth line. I am 56, widowed and live with my son & daughter-in-law.

Hope I hear from you.

Roni

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Hi Roni,

where are you going to have your surgery done? My was done in Hurst with Dr Adam Smith. I did alot of reading before chosing him. I'm down 35 pounds. Still have mixed feelings about the whole thing. I think maybe I could have done this without the surgery but then again, I hadn't done it so maybe I couldn't have. The thing that is helping the most is....no sodas, ( I was drinking alot of them) and eatting at the table only, no tv, no books while eatting and fixing my plate and not getting refils.

I keep trying to get to the support group in FW but never seem to make it.

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My doctor will be Dr Craig Ferrara. He is in the same office as Dr Smith. Dr Smith was my 1st choice since I know someone who had used him successfully, and can't say enough about him, but he doesn't take my insurance. Not sure what the location will be.

I know eating less will bring weight loss, obviously, but I think some of us need the additional restriction that LBS affords. Otherwise we would have been thinner long ago, at least I'm hoping I'm correct for my sake. lol For me, I figure a couple times of chest pain etc will be an valuable experience to reel in some of my bad habits.

Do you have any health issues or limitations that will benefit or possibly be eliminated by significant weight loss? I have a list!

1. Severe sleep apnea

2. Type II Diabetes

3. High Blood Pressure

4. High cholesterol

5. My spine is degenerating, causing pain & ultimately loss of mobility. But am hoping to prolong the mobility by losing the weight. My ability to walk is already limited, severely, but I gotta hope!

6. Very limited or inability to handle some personal tasks.

2-5 are controlled with meds, but heck I take 7 pills a day! I did have the blood pressure problem when I was thinner, but I think that was caused by my husband at the time. So that's a "We'll See" situation.

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Hi, for me, the decision was based more on what was coming toward me rather then what I have now. I'm border line diabetic, heart rate is starting to climb, decreased mobility. Being a nurse I see how difficult it is for overweight people. From ambulation to hygeine to assisting with them when transfering bed to chair. I can't change the fact that I'm getting older but I can change the way I feel as I get there. I hope everything goes ok with your insurance. I know it can be a long process. I was able to go private pay so from the time I saw the first person to surgry was 3 weeks. But I had read and thought about it for a year. Am having problems with incision healing but other then that everything is going good.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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