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You had surgery, you are now considered a risk... Bottom Line... As far as FMLA your company is to small to fall under their guidelines.

Your surgeon is not going to release you to lift that kind of weight. He won't want to repair a HERNIA on you, and you would not like it trust me !

If you find another job (GOOD LUCK) You will have to hope they have Ins., and if they do,,,,, you'll need to see how long before it;s available to you.

Your better off asking your surgeon how long before he releases you from restriction Wait on the matter, and take it on the chin for now.

You can always go somewhere else for a second part time job, just don't go against what he says ! He knows whats best for you.

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FMLA only protects your job. The leave is unpaid unless you have a paid leave program. So, even if it applies to this employer the OP wants to earn money. The employer is not saying that her job will not be available when her restrictions are lifted, just that until then she'll be working modified hours.

It is sad that they won't let you do parts of your co-workers' jobs while they are doing parts of yours, or that they won't work with you to modify your duties to avoid the restriction. You might check out the Americans with Disabilities Act and reasonable accommodations. I am not sure if it applies to a short-term thing, but if you can come up with a way to do your job without the lifting and present it as a temporary accommodation, they might go for it?

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I know this is bad, but,,,,,I did not tell my employer I was having lapband. I know it is wrong, but they would have done the same thing to me. I did it when I had a three day off week and was back to work on the 4th day. I just watched what I was doing and did not lift anything to heavy. I also stand all day, so it was a lot of moving and it helped me heal and feel better. Good luck

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Sorry to hear about your work sitch! Sounds like your work doesn't want to be liable if something happens nor your physician vice versa. I would take the p/t schedule for now, if you like your job, time goes fast, you may be better off with p/t work than having to be out of work and who knows how long it would take to find another job.

Sorry, wishing you the best of luck in your crumby situation. Hope it works out for the best!!!!

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I have no advise, but I wanted to say that my surgeon required me to be out of work for 6 weeks- at the 6 week mark I could go back on light duty until I was 2 months out. Granted, I am an EMT and frequently team lift patients over 600lbs and more (I work for a covelecent company that specializes in bariatric services), but just a few days seems like such a short time in comparison to what I stayed out.

My company alowed me to work dispatch after my 6 week mark until I could go back to my full duties (I was lucky there).

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You had surgery, you are now considered a risk... Bottom Line... As far as FMLA your company is to small to fall under their guidelines.

Your surgeon is not going to release you to lift that kind of weight. He won't want to repair a HERNIA on you, and you would not like it trust me !

If you find another job (GOOD LUCK) You will have to hope they have Ins., and if they do,,,,, you'll need to see how long before it;s available to you.

Your better off asking your surgeon how long before he releases you from restriction Wait on the matter, and take it on the chin for now.

You can always go somewhere else for a second part time job, just don't go against what he says ! He knows whats best for you.

My insurance isn't through my job. Luckily.

And this isn't the first time they tried to cut my hours. The last time they tried I was there to stop them. I think my surgery was an excuse to cut my hours, then tell me over the phone.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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