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That's my specialty! Try an enhancement cream, which will heat things up "down there." Better yet, I'll PM you so I don't freak anyone out!

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Girls, girls...enjoy it while you can. I am 61 and don't care if I never have sex again. My husband and I have a great relationship. We laugh together, hold hands, hug, kiss, talk alot and every now and then we have sex. Oh, and he is 2 years my junior. We stopped having sex regularly when the arthritis got so bad I was unable to endure it. However we have found other ways ....heh,heh...if you know what I mean.

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Nanahanna, you go girl!! My Grandpa who is 81 was banished to the little bedroom cause he is such a horndog!! Yes, my Grandma discusses these things with me. ;)

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By the way....I have noticed how all the women are responding to this thread...where are all the men? I would think that this could pertain to them also. ;) But then again....women can talk about this more openly than men can but we can still help! :Banane23:

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JessieBear, my FIL had heart trouble really bad and my MIL (who is 91 3/27/06) said right before he died at age 81 that he was sorry he wasn't "any good" for her anymore in that way. LOL.

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Hey... I responded... I'm here. Don't I count>

Bwaaa aaaaaaaaa (crying)... did I get any sympathy?

Wait, maybe you all thought I was a hairy woman?

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I hadnt felt like doing anything... i beleive becasue my body is in weird shapes that I dont like, I was used to how it was before.. Now its all distorted and I feel uncomfortable.. BUt I went out this weekend and I had my first ever non assisted orgasm.. So, I guess that could be called a NSV..

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My uncle fondled me. He had Alzheimer's and could barely walk but boy did he love the ladies! I hugged him, so he grabbed my boobs. He was 87 and didn't remember me, so I didn't knock him out. Some people are never too old for sex.

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Thanks so much for posting this, Kel!! I too have lost the urge lately, but been a bit embarassed to admit it, especially since I saw everyone talking about how much better their sex lives are since losing lol.

I'm hoping that for me, its just hormones due to weight loss. I have that appointment with the GP today and that's one of the things on my list to talk with her about. Hopefully she can have me fixed up good as new before my hubby gets home on Monday morning, cause as much as I want to jump him, I know I'll not feel like it lol.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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