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I just wanted to just say Thank-you to everyone here at LBT and expecially to Mr Alex for providing me with this forum.

I have always found this forum a source of support and community. When I need to vent about being a Turtle, I have never once been accused of not following the rules, of cheating, of exageration or lieing about my journey. No one has told me that I'm a quiter, a finger-pointer, or having a victim mentality.

I have been having a very difficult time accepting my status, and lately all I want to do is rail at the universe. I know it isn't really productive, but sometimes I have to kick and scream and basically act like a 2-year-old.

Thanks for being here, and thanks for letting me vent when I need to.

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...and basically act like a 2-year-old

if anyone deserves to do this - its you.

((hugs)) just remember, were all in this together!

and I agree, this forum is exceptional.

Thanks from me too, Alex!

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That's the beauty of this...having people who understand what you're going through. I wish there were something we all could do to make it easier for you...you have shared so much with all of us, and we appreciate you immensely. Everyone is entitled to kick and scream occasionally!! Hopefully the docs will figure something out and things will pick up a bit for you. Hope you'll keep us posted on all your testing~

Emily

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Girl, I don't know what you're talking about! I think you are doing great! Your new avatar looks like a different person altogether (not that you weren't beautiful before), and you have kept your head high all of this time! You are one of the busiest bandsters around, and you are a huge success!!

If you feel you need to have a big ole tantrum, girl, you go ahead!! Let me know and I will send you some extra energy to make it a good one!! I have them all the time, and they do make you feel better (as well as burn a few calories)!!!

Please don't be so down, we are ALL rooting for you and your scale victory. The issue that is causing you grief will be discovered soon, and you can get off that turtle's back and hop a rabbit!!!!

Love ya~

cheri

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We ALL understand where you're coming from and sympathize & empathize with you!! I DO hope you are able to figure out what the deal is with your weight & WHY IN THE HE** YOU AREN'T LOSING WEIGHT?!?!?!?!

Hang in there & come here to rant & rave anytime. We all love the support you give to us & are happy to return that to you!!

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I agree completely. I am so happy to have found this wonderful site where everyone is so giving of knowledge and helpful suggestions. I also really enjoy following everyone's journey and wishing the best for their success.

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vines-you are one of the reasons i joined this site and did my research on the band. i was so blown away by what you had done, and you were so nice when i had no idea what a "thread" was or how to navigate in lapband land. you look great, and are appreciated by lots of people : )

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Ditto. We're all standing with you, Vines. You will discover the answer; if it was easy, we wouldn't all be on here, would we? Thank you for all the guidance you have given to me and others! Cindy

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This is a wonderful place isn't it! You know we love ya! Keep posting those NSVs! The SVs will come eventually! That's what I keep telling myself! You can PM me anytime!

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As I always say, "Good things come to those who wait" and your day is definately coming. Hang in there, and vent away, that's what we are here for! :biggrin1:

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Well if temper tantrums are all it takes to start looking as good as that new avatar you have... I'm startin' one RIGHT NOW! You're looking great vines!

NOW GIMME BACK MY CRAYON!

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Ditto Ditto, especially the part about your new avatar! Looking great babe! If I join the turtle club I will be honored to be in such great company!

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What not to love about a classy lady like you.

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