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Hi, after 2 years having the band I find myself not dropping the weight as fast. my husband has asked to seperate, so i am starting fresh in life. I want to find new friends who have the band that can relate what I am going threw. looking for male or female 25-38 years old, within a 20 mins of clifton nj.

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Hi!

Wow I feel like I was reading my own! I got my band surgery one month before you! Did real well the first 9 months and than had some health issues, originally lost 40 pounds, gained 20 back, and now have lost 9 of those 20. I am drowning so bad here, i am almost at my tightest, not eating right, can't get my head out of my a--!!! Have horrible heartburn every day and puking almost every day.

I am not sure how far I am from Clifton, I am in howell. Would love to chat!

My email is: mcarroll129@yahoo.com

Take care!

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I'm in between both your areas. My email is mee0wswrs@aim.com my experience has been the ugly, the bad, and the good

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Just reading this now. Curious as to how things are going? I'm in Bedminster if you're looki g for a buddy. I could always use one too!

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33male here' date=' from Piscataway . Banded with dr abkin . Anyone else use him or his office[/quote']

I have a consultation with Dr Abkin on June 14th. How was he? Have you lost alot of weight?

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Dr. Abkin is doing my band on August 5th.

Bandchop, have you been happy with results?

AAD, how was your consultation?

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Dr. Abkin is doing my band on August 5th.

Bandchop' date=' have you been happy with results?

AAD, how was your consultation?[/quote']

Wow im really late on this one. My consultation was great had my surgery yesterday. It went well but now the gas is setting in.

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I'm looking for a work out buddy I'm joining planet fitness in west Patterson. I'm 39 looking for new friends.

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Debpaige I would love to where do you live? When were or when were you banded?

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I live on mcbride ave .. I want to join planet fitness too.. Test me 8622538756 .. We can meet up and be band buddies

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How u making out?

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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