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Hello! I have thoroughly enjoyed your posts. I am considering having the lapband. My first consultation is tomorrow. I have not been successful in following a diet thus far. What will change when I get the band. My doctor tells me the band is only good for people who eat large meals at one time. I am more a snacker. Do you think that statement is true? I would truly appreciate an honest opinion.

Hope to be a bandster soon

Christine

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Well, I'm a relative new bandster (11/17/03), but I'll be happy to share with you what I've learned thus far.

Your life drastically changes. By that, you basically have to teach yourself how to eat all over again. The days of eating all you want whenever you want are behind you. The pouch that is created is roughly 1/2 cup in size, give or take a little. Even before your first fill, you will notice that you can't eat the same amounts that you used to.

Eating becomes a new experience. You must learn to greatly narrow down your portion sizes that you put into your mouth. meats must be chewed extremely well, lest you risk bringing it back up or a stoma obstruction. Protein becomes your mainstay, as my doctor preaches getting in the Protein first, in case you are unable to hold any other food.

There are physical sensations that you must learn to adjust to. For example, if you eat to rapidly you are going to know it. I got in a bit of a hurry the other day eating some deli turkey breast and before you know it I was having a good old slime episode.

You learn to know when you are full. For me, I feel like there is a golf ball in the top of my stomach. That to me is a good feeling because it certainly discourages me from eating that one last bite.

I am having to learn to reexamine my relationship to food. I would eat a big steak, baked potato and vegetable along with a compliment of dinner rolls in 15 minutes. Now, I have to literally fight to make my 1/2 cup meal last 30 minutes. I still haven't mastered that one yet! ;)

Having gone through Thanksgiving newly banded and getting ready to go through Christmas banded also causes me to give a moment of psychological pause as well. It's darn hard to watch everyone around me woofing down piles of turkey, ham, dressing and mashed taters with gravy while here I sit basically nibbling! I'll certainly be glad when the holidays are behind me!

Hope you carefully think things out and choose wisely for your personal needs. Choosing the LapBand has been the best decision I have made

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I was very bad at dieting pre-band, but the band helps a lot. It's a lot easier to say no to bad foods when you're physically unable to eat another bite anyway!

I don't agree that the band only works for people who eat big meals. Grazing is not such a good way to eat post-op with any of the surgeries, but you can learn new habits. And, besides, when your stomach is so much smaller, you will end up eating less regardless of how you eat - it's just that grazing might prevent you from losing as much weight as you're fully capable of.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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