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Hi there,

Its great to have found this forum. I am hoping to have gastric band surgery next month with Dr. Chris de Bruyne.

I have been yo yo dieting for twenty years and have tried all weight loss methods including weightwatchers, slim fast, hypnosis, lipotrim, Atkins diet, educogym, curves, walking 30 miles per week, going to the gym for 4 hours per week and weight training. I now weigh 14 and two pounds and am 5ft 2 inches. I suffer from high cholesterol, an underactive thyroid, weight related depression and insomnia. I have no quality of life and rarely socialise due to my weight. I have fluctuated between 9 and 16 stone over the past fifteen years and feel that I now really need an aid to assist me in losing the weight and keeping it off for life. I understand that the gastric band surgery will not solve the problem but that it should help in tackling the issue.

I am now 33 years old. I would also really like to have two children in the next four years and do not feel able to get pregnant until I get control of my weight problem and associated depression. I am worried about pregnancy with the band and potential c sections and the effect that they could have on the band. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a million.

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Welcome! You definitely came to the right place if you're interested in the gastric banding surgery.

Read through the posts and you'll know more than you ever thought possible! This site has been so valuable to me in helping me decide which surgery would be the best for me. I started reading this forum in July 09 and now know that the Lap band (actually the Realize band) is the right surgery for me!

Keep us all posted on your journey!! And good luck! You're among friends now. :]:unsure:

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Thank you so much for the lovely message Rockstar. It is very reassuring to know that this website provides such a strong support system. I look forward to hearing how all goes for you on your op day. Take care and best of luck with it all.

I will research the realize band tonight.:unsure:

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Hi there,

Its great to have found this forum. I am hoping to have gastric band surgery next month with Dr. Chris de Bruyne.

I have been yo yo dieting for twenty years and have tried all weight loss methods including weightwatchers, slim fast, hypnosis, lipotrim, Atkins diet, educogym, curves, walking 30 miles per week, going to the gym for 4 hours per week and weight training. I now weigh 14 and two pounds and am 5ft 2 inches. I suffer from high cholesterol, an underactive thyroid, weight related depression and insomnia. I have no quality of life and rarely socialise due to my weight. I have fluctuated between 9 and 16 stone over the past fifteen years and feel that I now really need an aid to assist me in losing the weight and keeping it off for life. I understand that the gastric band surgery will not solve the problem but that it should help in tackling the issue.

I am now 33 years old. I would also really like to have two children in the next four years and do not feel able to get pregnant until I get control of my weight problem and associated depression. I am worried about pregnancy with the band and potential c sections and the effect that they could have on the band. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a million.

Hi pet, I am in the very same position as you are, I am 30, I have a bmi of 33 and have no quality of life due to my weight. I really honestly know how you feel. I recently suffered a miscarraige and even though i dont think it was related to my weight I cant be so sure. I also have prolapsed disks in my back and im nearly crippled because of them. Are you in Ireland? I am still in the reaearch stage and going through a whirlwind of emotions, it would be great to have a buddy to go through it with and support each other. Hope to hear from you :thumbup:

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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