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DeLarla- you are hot at the weight you are at !!! It's all in how you feel and present yourself !! Don't concentrate on a number, they mean nothing in the grand scheme of things.:clap2:

WAY TO GO GIRL ! Good for you for never giving up !!!!!!:clap2: The next big thrill-getting your surgery date !! YEEEHAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWW

Mandy, I just found this post today. I am not only talking to you as a mother, a social worker who works with the mentally ill on a dialy basis, but also as a mother who watched her own daughter (also named Abigail) dealing with many of the same struggles you are going through. I give 100 % praise and admiration to you for being there for your precious daughter (and she is precious, I saw her picture). You are her biggest support and ally and don't ever give up on her. Kudos to you for following your gut and seeking help. I would cry night after night, until I saw kids who were far worse off than my child. It made me think that I could get through this, and you will too !!! I initially rejected medications (this is from a social worker married to a nurse). Don't make the same mistake we did. Keep her on the zoloft or whatever else a trusted doc puts her on. Your realtionship with her psychiatrist and pediatrician will make all the difference. Be proud of yourself that you are dealing with this at such an early age. Your beautiful daughter will be fine. The day will come when you can't remember anything except the sound of her laughter. Keep the faith and please PM me if I can be of help. We are all here for you and Abby. Leah

Finally found it online. It is a dice game and you can play for chips or money. I was wondering if anyone had played. My friends say it is a blast. Will let you know when I receive mine in the mail !!

yes, I go monthly. I think that is the number one reason I stay on track. I need all the support I can get and I advise anyone who hasn't gone, to at least try.

Anyone ever play?

Her new book came out yesterday. Same day she was on Dr. Phil and 20/20. I actually don't care how she lost the weight, just don't be dishonest about it. The american public watch you. And she looks better with a little meat on her, IMO.

I told my husband because I couldn't get away with not telling him ! Other than that, I felt it was a very personal matter. Although I love my friends and co-workers, I didn't want to live under a microscope. I didnt tell my family because they worry about my health and I thought they just wouldn't understand. I have lost at a rapid pace, so people are noticing and asking questions-I just say I eat ALOT less. Not a lie, right??? I have even had some rude people ask if I had GB, again I say "NO".

Good Luck. Hope this solves the problem for good. You have done well with your weight loss. Here's to continued success......

hahahahaha...........exactly !

It's the best, isn't it? I weighed more than my husband for 14 out of the 15 years we have been married. It's so nice to have smaller underwear ! WAY TO GO GIRL !

Check out those new avatars !!!! You guys are HOT !!!!! Thanks for updating so we can ALL appreciate how well you both have done. Absolutely gorgeous girls !!!

Anyone in MA ever had plastic surgery, specifically a tummy tuck? Were you pleased with your results and who you used?? I need surgery desparately and I have no idea where to start/who to use. Thanks for any info.

Those are wonderful !! Isn't it great !?! You have done so well-congrats on all the hard work:nervous

you will feel better with each and very day. What you are experiencing is very normal. Good luck and WELCOME !!!

Actually, my dad has BOTH medicare and BC/BS, so I am not sure who is paying for what. He def meets all the criteria for the surgery, so I would be amazed if his insurance turned him down. He is about 50 % done with the whole process and plans on March for the surgery. I never told a soul I was doing this except my husband and best friend. Well, when I heard through the grapevine that my Dad was thinking of doing this, I just HAD to step forward and confess. I mean, what better support than to have a daughter who has already gone through all the ups and downs !!!! Good Luck and keep us posted on how things are going for you. You will find a wealth of info and so many wonderful people on this site.

Welcome Home ! We missed you Feel better soon and take care of that back !

Hey, that's neat !! We were banded on exactly the same day ! I have also lost 80 pounds thus far and I can tell you are as excited as me. Unfortunately, I started at a higher weight, so I have a bit to go before I hit 144. Congrats and please post pictures soon.

Hey Nanahanna, Don't worry, there are def a few bandsters over 60 or close to it. I am currently helping my dad through the whole process, and he is now 70 !!! Good luck with your decision to become a whole new you ! Leah

Way to go girl !!! keep it goin'..... How are you feeling? Any more pain from the surgery or is that alllllll behind you?

Oh I'm so sorry this happened to you !!! Just know that everything happens for a reason-it just wasn't your time. Hang in there- March is around the corner !!!

Hey Nana !! Congrats on the latest cutie pie !!! What a beauty!

Hello fellow May bandsters !!! Can you believe it's been 7 (+) months for us???? I keep trudging along....slowing down a bit I was hoping to hit the 100 pound mark by my 40th birthday (Feb 1), but I am a little more realistic that it's NOT going to happen. I'm so happy with what I have accomplished and how much better I feel. Well, congrats to ALL of us for getting through the holidays ! How is everybody else doing?

Ok, how did I miss this post? I have been laughing my a$$ off over here.....

she's beautiful !!! Happy Birthday to the both of you !!!