If you are conflicted, I would get a few second opinions from doctors to see what they recommend for you. I chose the sleeve because I did not want a foreign object/ band in my body and didn't want the bypass because I didn't want my intestines rerouted and all the malabsorptive issues that come with it. I am only 5 weeks out but I am so happy with my decision. Before I never felt full or satisfied, now I eat a few bites and I am done. No longer a member of clean the plate club. I am down 25 pounds from 246. I feel so much better already, and the best thing is that I know I won't ever go back!!