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Cindy I think there was nothing wrong with what your doctor said and sharing that. I actually appreciated that. I think honestly? Where you got some people feeling badly? was by saying you used to come to the forum a lot but now you don't because of all the misinformation. For those of us who spend time here trying to help others, that was a little slap in the face.
You may not have meant it that way of course, but I suspect many of us interpreted it that way.
But it's all good and I too hope you don't stop posting

Went to my 1 week appointment on Friday and all is well!! Still no issues with anything. It is now 12 days since surgery and 36 lbs lost since Oct 1 and 20lbs since after surgery (Oct 16th). Feeling good but the liquid phase 1 is really boring. Can't wait to get to phase 2 on Thursday. Should have much more variety.

But the real question really is if a tree falls and no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound?
(Sorry attempt at humor to lighten the mood...)

This site has been a lifeline for me too. I have found many people just like me, which is reassuring and educational. My NUT calls my time on the forum my "research" as I am very well-versed and know the proper questions to ask her. I have learned so much from all of you, and as I stand on the edge of this great precipice, prepared to jump, I am glad you are all behind me--cheering me on!

If you do write a Facebook post, I think it should be this. YOU are a great writer. (I should know, I'm an English teacher!) This post explains it all.
You'll probably find wonderful support in the least likely people. I say, go for it!

If you do write a Facebook post, I think it should be this. YOU are a great writer. (I should know, I'm an English teacher!) This post explains it all.
You'll probably find wonderful support in the least likely people. I say, go for it!

Thanks!! If I can squeeze into a bathing suit at this weight , a little saggy skin should be a piece of cake! ????

Today is "The Day"!!! I have to be at the hospital at 9 A.M., surgery is scheduled for somewhere around 11 A.M. I very anxious to get there and get this done. Please keep me in your prayers!! Thank you all for the support thus far!

You will find many passionate opinions that vary greatly on this subject. They will run the gamet from "shout it from the rooftops" to "My body. My business." to witty retorts and outright deceit.
All feel they are right or justified in their way of handling this life changing event and may even attack when challenged. I am of the mindset of silence or honesty, no lies.
Basing it solely on your post stating you feel shame and embarrassed. That you don't want to be judged or abandoned I would suggest you search your heart and soul. I believe honesty is empowering. I do not like the idea of hiding because you fear other's responses. You are giving them power over you. They do not deserve it.
I've been very open about my choice. I've experienced some negativity. It stung. But I worked at remembering that they are the one with the problem. Not me. It is my body. My health. My choice. And I am not ashamed.
My name is Amanda Rae. I am a food addict. I had WLS, and I am not ashamed.

Way to go! I am right behind you! December 18.

This site has been a lifeline for me too. I have found many people just like me, which is reassuring and educational. My NUT calls my time on the forum my "research" as I am very well-versed and know the proper questions to ask her. I have learned so much from all of you, and as I stand on the edge of this great precipice, prepared to jump, I am glad you are all behind me--cheering me on!

This site has been a lifeline for me too. I have found many people just like me, which is reassuring and educational. My NUT calls my time on the forum my "research" as I am very well-versed and know the proper questions to ask her. I have learned so much from all of you, and as I stand on the edge of this great precipice, prepared to jump, I am glad you are all behind me--cheering me on!

This site has been a lifeline for me too. I have found many people just like me, which is reassuring and educational. My NUT calls my time on the forum my "research" as I am very well-versed and know the proper questions to ask her. I have learned so much from all of you, and as I stand on the edge of this great precipice, prepared to jump, I am glad you are all behind me--cheering me on!

I called my insurance today and found out I was APPROVED !!! So excited December Surgery Here I Come ......

Super easy process. They put a plastic peace in your mouth to protect your teeth and keep your mouth open while you're asleep. Then they put you under and when you wake up, it's all done!

And the positives of skinny jeans if you tend not to carry weight in your butt or legs, is they often feel like yoga pants! I love the stretch.

Okay, it's been almost 6 months since surgery. Lost close to 100 pounds. Things I have noticed. Firstly, I have gone through all the clothes I had in my closet, from xxxl to l. Even the clothes I used to wear when I thought I was at a " normal" weight are huge on me. Hard, uncushioned chairs are uncomfortable for my now bony butt, painful! The weight loss has happened so quickly that when I look in the mirror I can't wrap my head around the way I look. I can walk up 3 flights of stairs at work without having to sit down and catch my breath before I can chat with someone. I'm not depressed anymore, and don't let people take advantage of me. 3 different responses from people who haven't seen me prior to surgery. One, they don't recognize me, two they recognize me but say nothing about my weight loss because they fear that I've contracted some deadly disease, and three, they congratulate me on my weight loss and ask how I did it. I have become addicted to checking my weight 3 times a week dreading the thought of gaining an ounce. I struggle through days when I don't work out because of the guilt of betraying myself. Unfortunately, the indentation my massive stomach made in my bed will not go away, I have to put a pillow in it to fill it up. Most importantly, I don't wake up twice a night to hit the bathroom, all that weight on my bladder is gone.

Nearly 5 months out and I can eat 1 to 1&1/2 cups of food (8 to 12 oz) at my evening meal. So I must select good Proteins and veggies. I avoid most carbs and no simple sugars.
Don't know how many 'bites' but I do still eat with a baby spoon (cute eh?)

Has anyone else noticed that when you drink warm Soup that you stay satiated longer, have less of an appetite, and stay full? It's brilliant, plus the best part is that you are barely taking in any calories; I recently made a soup from beef Bone Broth, a few ounces of shredded steak, cabbage, mushrooms, onions, carrots, and a tiny splash of V8. I was experimenting and made all of this in my electric kettle. A cup of this soup is maybe 30 calories! And it tastes better with every passing day, win!

Pcos diagnosis in 2005, 2 fertility babies one in 04 & 09. Sleeved in 2012 ended up with a surprise pregnancy 7 months post OP no fertility my cycle came every 28 days before pregnancy 23 weeks pregnant. Absolutely thrilled it was natural conception. My fertility has been restored. Hopefully the same for you good luck!
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I crave foods I shouldn't eat.( cheese and salty-crunchy anything) Arts 137, you and I may share a brain. I always agree with your posts. At any rate, I am wondering about those restaurant commercials and how they will affect me post-surgery. As of right now, I am trying to figure out how to combat them. They always give me the munchies!

But the real question really is if a tree falls and no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound?
(Sorry attempt at humor to lighten the mood...)

Had an appointment with my PCP to discuss my low blood pressure and its symptoms Well, I HAVE BEEN TAKEN OFF BOTH BLOOD PRESSURE MEDICATIONS!!!!! Woo Hooooooooooooo.

Blended and peeled fruit removes the Fiber and strips the nutrients from the mashed fruit. All that is essentiailly left is sugar. Fruti smoothies are marketed as healthy, but are filled with carbs and calories.