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I'm so glad I have your support. Too bad we can't let one go on command.

You can't? DAYUM! I sure can...wait....maybe this is one of those topics I should use my inside voice on.....

Am SO trying to be more of a lady. I've decided I want to start dating again and boys seem to like girls who are at least a LITTLE girl-y.

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DeLarla -

Why don't you use some good old fashioned honesty on her. Tell her how her actions offend you and how you don't understand for the life of you how a person can be as ignorant of anothers struggles and be so blatantly obtrusive in your weight loss effort. Let her know how you try to respect the common ground of your shared space and that you can't possibly understand what she gets out of the mean childish destructive behavior that she perpetuates on you in this common ground.

Ask her kindly to see that her actions are harmful and useless and that as grown adults sharing common space - things needed to be said.

Sometimes talking calmly, sensibly is a put down enough for others to get the MESSAGE.

If not. Try to find out slyly through conversation what type of smells she hates and start bring those smells around her. Talk about things that make you sick, learn her things and then use them to show her what she is doing to you.

But - above all my motto is KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS....it just confuses them so much - they don't get any joy out of pushing your buttons - so they stop and move on to an easier target - thus leaving you alone.

That's my favorite tactic....works everytime.

Take care -

I look at the underwear thing like a gauge - keeps you aware of things. Thats what I think and why I won't go back to the granny panties either.

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open some nasty cheap catfood, cook it in the microwave, then scrape it on top of the trash closest to her... tell her chris cooked and you had to bring it to work, but it's so bad you just can't eat it... shhhh don't tell him 'k?

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I have a suggestion to undies creeping and thats a G String. Permanant creepers!! :)

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How about this one? I only know this because I accidentally did it to another co-worker - she couldn't stand the smell of burnt popcorn and I had a bag of it in the trashcan next to our 911 consoles - after she sat down at my console behind me she mad a big to-do about the offending odor of burnt popcorn - so apparently it really bothers some people - I suggest burning a bag of it to the point of damn near catching fire and then drop it into her trash can discreetly - if you can hide some other things on top of it so she'll have to dig to find it.

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Lisa, I have been thinking about this post, and the soda post, etc. I am afraid that there is probably only one solution to this problem that you are having at work.

ERIN MUST DIE.

:-)

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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