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:sad:Hello

I am scared to have intercourse because I am afraid that my husband might put too much presure on my stomach area and cause a slippage or my port to flip. This is causing relationship problems. Will his body on top of mine and pressure cause complications? Thank You

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Why do you not just do it with him coming in from behind (doggy style).I dont think there would be any problems any way as long as he is not putting all his weight on you.The port is sewed on your muscles so you shouldnt have any problems with it flipping.

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I've never had a port issue. I work out, wrestle around with my kids, and generally ignore it completely. My band doc has done 3 active pro football players and 2 pro mixed martial arts fighters. They have no port problems. If a bit of nookie would hurt your port, you're probably doing it wrong. :frown:

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I say don't worry! I have never had a problem not once and the more I loose the better it gets.....

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Believe me you will not have a problem.

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mY hubby cant fully lay on top of me either right now,i'm 6weeks out, try different positions, he should be understanding, and supportive of you,i can feel my port after losing 18lbs,some days the area is sore,good luck

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thanks for posting, I had this same question:redface:!

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