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Donna, I think all the names fit certain people at certain times :thumbup:. I've had a bad day and it isn't getting better. The word for me today would be Ultimate Bitch Supreme with Fangs. Tomorrow, that might be Version 2 depending on whether or not some idiot wakes me at 8 am about a cell phone bill I know nothing about!! Argh.

But, gotta say, I LOVE snarky. :thumbup:

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Ok, first of all it's responses like these from people that make me nervous about asking any questions on here....aren't we all here to support each other?

OP, I would also agree that if your on antibiotics (or have been) then definitely use a backup to the pill....I also became pregnant w/ my first baby after being on antibiotics even though I took the pill religiously (this is the reason I have been using the implanon ever since as it go's through your bloodstream and not your digestive system).

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We might be sketchy on sex, but ask us ANYTHING about food and we'll know it. :thumbup:

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I'm 43, banded in January, married 13 years and my husband had a vasectomy

Can I have unprotected sex?

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I'm 43, banded in January, married 13 years and my husband had a vasectomy

Can I have unprotected sex?

I would wear a garbage bag. Just to be safe.

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Last time I checked PG did

ROFLMAO I am on a roll :thumbup: :thumbup:

You are on a roll! Love it!!!

Dear Restless Monkey,

If you do not indeed own LBT, why have I made all those checks payable to you???? Now, I can't afford soda in a bottle or a chicken and my weedeater is on the fritz. This started as a bad hair day and just kept sliding down hill from there.

TPG:wink:

Ooooh...Waiting for answer to that one!

I live in South Texas. Actually, I think my neighbor has some! LOL

Hey! Watch it!

To be honest, I've never heard the word before today. Bitchy seems to fit some people better though don't you think! I prefer the term "smart ass"

Can I be a fan of all of the above?

i think we lost the OP.

I guess she got the answer she wanted and is getting busy!

I'm 43, banded in January, married 13 years and my husband had a vasectomy

Can I have unprotected sex?

This is a tough one...I'd talk to your doctor first.

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I'm 43, banded in January, married 13 years and my husband had a vasectomy

Can I have unprotected sex?

With him? Probably.

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Someone please start a thread about oral sex and the band, I need something to liven up my day at work tomorrow.

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I'm 43, banded in January, married 13 years and my husband had a vasectomy

Can I have unprotected sex?

LMAO! You are gonna get some nasty responses. I think you are very funny.:thumbup:

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I am 4 1/2 weeks post op, I take a birth control pill everyday...I haven't missed one since my surgery. Can I have unprotected sex with my boyfriend? Will I be protected?

I would venture to say that you were just as protected as you were pre-op. But when in doubt there is always :thumbup: or :thumbup:

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For the record....I only made light of this thread because of the vagueness of the question.

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so honest,..what can happen if u have an unplanned pregnancy?

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