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Hi all,

I am considering, very seriously, of getting banded. I'm 5'5" and 275 lbs. I'm pretty sure that gives me a BMI of over 40 (and no thanks, I don't need an exact number just yet, lol).

I live in the KC, MO area and went to one seminar held by Malley Surgical Weight Loss.

I know I need to get this done, but I'm terrified of putting my family into major debt to pay for this. My insurance specifically excludes everything to do with weight loss and any medical costs that result from it.

Have any of you who have self-paid regretted the financial decision? Would you have preferred to wait until you saved up the money?

Also how do you find the best Dr. to have it done? I don't want the cheapest nor do I want to pay for the most expensive either. I want the best Dr. I can afford. Any help you can give would be great.

I hope to spend a lot of time here, getting as informed as I can.

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Hi Jena - I'm 5'5'' and started at 265 and my bmi was 43.7....that's as much as you probably want to know. :eek:

I paid cash for my surgery because my insurance only covers gastric bypass and I'm not a candidate for that. The cost of mine was $16,750, but I was able to shave some off by having my own doctor do the psych eval and my own cardiologist do the heart testing. I think I could have got it cheaper and we certainly couldhave paid more. You really want to find your own sweet spot...not judging just by money, but by quality and reputation.

This site has a lot of good resources for dr. referrals...definitely look for bariatric center of excellence for both the facility and the surgeon.

As far as regret...I'm only 6 days out...I have lost 26 pounds. I'm only now starting to turn the corner where I may feel good enough to feel it was worth it.

As far as money, we used our work bonuses and borrowed $5k from my parents, who really wanted me to do it. Other people have used their home equity line of credit and (at least in California) there is a financing program called CarePay which has really low interest rates.

There are lots of options for payment and providers...do your homework and good luck!!!

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I had to pay 11,000 and my insurance paid 5,000. I do not regret it all. I feel it was worth it.

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Do plenty of research. Check out the "complications forum." You need to talk to people who have had problems; not just patients who have been successful. You should also definitely check out the sleeve gastrectomy, which is becoming very popular, and may have a better success rate.

Mark Pleatman MD

website www.laparoscopy.com/pleatman

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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