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The Day Before Surgery--a Poem



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'twas the day before surgery; I was kind of scared.

I wanted to be sure that I was prepared.

Two weeks of full liquids, last two days, clear ones;

My newfound lap band friends, coworkers, and dear ones.

I attended support groups and drank Protein shakes;

I hoped that I hadn't made any mistakes.

All my pre-op testing had finally been done,

And now the countdown to band day had begun.

I went to work trying to stay busy all day;

I wanted to keep all my worries at bay.

I've lost weight, that's great; but did my liver shrink?

What if, post-op, I don't get enough to drink?

Will I wake up in pain? Will I wake up at all?

Will I be anxious to walk round the halls?

Once the band is inside, will I know that it's there,

As we become partners, and this journey share?

Now all systems are go, everything is in place.

I'm nearing the finish line, at the end of the race.

I'll visit my friends on the lap band web site,

And hope I won't be overtaken by fright.

It's hard to believe that the day's finally here!

The hoops I've jumped through, the frustration, the fear.

At the end of this journey, there's a golden light

With hope for the future growing ever more bright.

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Thank you, Wendy. For the well wishes and for the poem.

Debbie

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WOW that as a great poem it is nice that you have a gift to put so many of our thoughts and fears into words Good luck and my thoughts are with you:thumbup:

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Enjoyed the poem. We both had surgery on the same day. How are you doing? I am fine - just sore at the incision site. :thumbup:Jane

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Hello that is a great peom it fits me right now i am having my surgery tomorrow i am a little scared but excited to. I am ready to begin my journey.

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Thank you, everyone.

Peachwood, I'm doing fine. Like you, I have soreness at the incision sites, and I'm so afraid I'll injure my port, for some reason. It's harder getting up, or shifting positions, that's when I feel the soreness. Keep in touch.

Hot Granma, I'm not sure if you're having surgery now, but let us know how it goes.

Good luck to all February bandsters!

Debbie

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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