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Hi Everyone, I am glad to be here and am looking forward to my lap-band surgery in the near future, if all goes off without a hitch.

I don't know how many of you all can say this but I am one of those people that has been very thin and very fat.

I am a once-thin, male at 46 years of age and am now considered "super-obese" at 375 lbs.

Here is a short synopsis of what happened:

1) Growing up - average size but overweight occasionally.

2) College and Starting out - Healthiest time in my life. After college I worked in the construction field and got down to 160. For me, this weight was actually very thin as I am just over 5'11". For the first time in my life I could do even one-handed chinups like I was a chimpanzee. I never thought I would ever again have a weight problem.

3) Later, I had an office job and then became a software developer and became quite sedantary. My youthful eating habits have never really changed, with an ever present Portion Control problem.

23 years later if my investment portfolio looked anything like a plotted chart of my weight in that time, I'd be the richest man on Earth.

I have clung to reasonably good health, but am now starting to get some of the comorbidities, such sleep apnea and hypertension. I am determined that diabetes will NOT be the next shoe to drop.

So I made the decision to do lapband. My sister had a gastric bypass several years ago and one of my brothers actually had gastric bypass during the experimental stages back in the early 1980's. Both have been basically successful.

Since my sister had the current bypass procedure, we were surprised she did not lose more weight. However, she has a "sweet tooth" and never got "dumping syndrome" so there was no penalty for it. More recently she has begun to lose weight again. I mention this because I am well familiar with the lifestyles changes that are required.

I believe the lap-band will work for me because it is adjustable and because my problem has always been Portion Control and I do NOT have a sweet tooth.

WHAT am I STRUGGLING with now...

Now that I know that the surgery is coming it is difficult to avoid things like pizza because I keep thinking that this is the last time I will ever be able to sit down and pig out on pizza.< /p>

Edited by Albacheeser

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eat your pizza now but follow the doc's pre op directions -

you can still eat pizza but I got over the urge to "pig out" -

I also got over the urge to drink as I eat -- I just got used to it- at first, I wanted to rip this band out but as time goes on it becomes easier - I am going to Ci-Ci's with my family in a few hours and will eat some salad and the tops off a couple of pieces of pizza and I will be fine with that- it is amazing how much more money you will have in your bank account and I always take home a "to go" container - I guess I need to learn how to oder less - right now I am too sky to show them my card about the surgery so I can order from the child's menu ---- and my family and pets enjoy left overs from eating out:blushing:

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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