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That is my confession too! Even my own cooking, i've been using real butter and heavy cream. I forgot how yummy real mashed potatoes are. But I came into December thinking I will eat yummies and goodies and sweets, but of course in January I will get back on track. I even reminded my daughter this morning that January 1st we go back to chicken and good carbs, no more mashed potatoes. I haven't even weighed myself for about 2 wks, in order to not depress myself!

However, I notice that with my wonderful band, even though I'm eating all this yummy, delicious holiday food, I'm not eating nearly as much as I could have eaten last year.

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confession: i just removed my SIL from Facebook, after only adding her christmas eve.

i just logged on and saw that my MIL & FIL joined and she had them added - no issues, but I'M NOT ADDING THEM. that's MY space and i don't want them to know what i'm doing or better yet what DH and I are doing.

the confession part - i could CARE less. i know my SIL will be hurt even after i explain why (she's part of all the drama - actually she claims to hate it ; but feeds MIL). i can't worry about that crap any longer - DH is done he says (YAHHHHHHH) finally!

on a side note: "we" did get a thank you email last night for the flatscreen.....as mentioned previously i did get a nice candle:sneaky:

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TOTALLY understandable, Lulu. You should have drama-free zones like that. You're entitled. Light your new candle and meditate on it. :tongue_smilie:

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lulu - she may not even notice it ... if you 'unfriend', the unfriended individual is not notified...

Good to know!!!!!! :tongue_smilie:

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Good to know!!!!!! :tongue_smilie:

i KNOW....

ljm - as soon as i did it ; i got a confirmation that she would not be notified. if/when she realizes; she should know exactly why - and if not, can't help....not good at drawing.

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Totally understandable Lulu

Confession - I have been craving salsa and chips. I purchased some tonight at Target.

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Light your new candle and meditate on it. :frown:

Bwa-ha-ha-ha......love it......

My holiday confession - I have eaten WAY too much sugar over the holidays.....gah.

Amen. And I still gots NYE to go. I think I'm gonna be smashed.....

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I've had to much schnapps tonight and I'm starting to feel a bit sicky

Ooops! Watch out....it'll sneak up on you!

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I've got a new fave drink, Disarrono! OMG, for those who haven't tried this, don't. It is too good, so smooth. Hubby and I bought a bottle over the weekend before xmas, and have since finished 3 more bottles. And we usually aren't daily drinkers. I told him the other day we need to stop buying it, he said no, just restrict ourselves. LOL, yeah, right.

Then my boss gave me a bottle with a bottle of eggnog, lol. Well, like i keep saying...January 1st...

I also made mac and chz for my daughter 2nite with real cream and butter, to try to use it all up to get it out of the house.

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