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I didn't GIVE UP ice cream...I just changed from eating way too much of the really fattening stuff to those popsicles that have ice cream in them. They are only 60 calories each. I was having about 350 calories (or more) of the REAL good stuff!

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I can not WAIT for the biggest loser finale tonight!! GO TARA!!!!! She amazes me!

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Oh My Goodness. Danny Gokey just sang "You are so Beautiful" and it was amazing. Stunning.

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im transferring it to the bedroom, what did adam sing??

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watching bL finale right now!!!!!!!!

go to jennyo.com and register and you will get a coupon for $5.00 off (free product).. I am a coupon queen these days!!!! KRISTEN LOOKS GREAT!

NO ICE CREAM TODAY@@ score.. (BIG SCORE) I love yo9u guys!!!!!!!!!

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Laura: Im all weepy........... I;m so happy for you and carson... I can't believe he's here...... omg you are a mom... I love you all! you know that right...... I can't believe I was gone for so long....... guilt sucks... I love my V's!!!!!!!!!!

Robby is so skinny these days............. and I have 20 boxes of Cereal in the pantry that I've paid no more than .98 for......... I AM acoupon queen....carl is my paper hook up...... I met him at the grocery......... LOL.. he's the paper guy that I pay in pepsi for coupons.......... another obession........ I am a freakazoid..... damn I've missed my v's!!!!!!!!!!

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My DH is the ice cream feind in our family---he and Kinsey! But he has gained weight, and so he quit. He can do that, always has been able to--when he needs to quit something he just does it. He quit eating potatoes, and he simply does not eat them -- nor does he complain about not having them. His ice cream, he acknowldeges missing it, and wanting it, but he simply doesn't give in. I am glad it is that easy for him, but at the same time, it irritates the hell outta me!!! I want that kind of control, and I just don't have it!

Went to lunch with Rick and my folks today. It is so nice they get along so well. I walked in last....had a last minute call at work, and as I walked to the table they were all laughing, and it just was such a nice thing to find---the people I love, laughing together.

Yesterday, I worked, and Rick didn't. He rode his bike over to my work, left it, took my car, had it cleaned, fueled it, and left me a new batch of CD's in the changer! I am so lazy, I listen to the same thing, over and over. It holds 10 discs, so I just let them go---he changes it!!! He made me some new music. Said it was his way of saying thank you for all the work I did for the Mothers Day cookout, when I should have been relaxing myself. I think he was feeling guilty over his Moms shenanigans. I do NOT hold him responsible for her silliness!!!

I did ok with my eating today. I managed a large bottle of Water this morning, had fish for lunch, and a taco for dinner. Also drank another couple of bottles of water, and my tea at lunch. I know the food choices could be better, but the amounts were reasonable, and I avoided the really bad options!!!

Jane, I liked the picture.....but I must say, and I do not know how to break this to you.....but you are STILL SHORT!!!! The people sitting are almost as tall as you are my friend!!! LOL It really was good to see your face! I miss you!

I would ask for proof of Charlie paying that! No sense getting yourself in trouble for him. Have you been networking for a new job? Ask everyone you know----I have always seen that it works better than anonymous resumes. You can come to NM and work with me!

Family? Friends? Michelle, prepare for a Violet intervention if you try to finish your term!!! Those people are not always nice to you, so walk away----and let them see how "easy" the job really is! You have spoiled every last one of them from the principal, down.....let ANYONE try to follow!!! Sit back and watch!!! Now I might volunteer to help with one thing, say the book fair, just to show my face, and hear how they miss you!!! LOL

Jenn, hope things go well with the job.

Tracy---you go girl, the gym again!! How is the nose???

Pamela, 100 donuts???? OMG I would have slimed just smelling them!!!

Ooops my brother is here, will catch the rest of you later!

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my puter has the virus that acts as an anti virus... I can't uninstall....... and it ticks me off..........

I boiled eggs tonight for a deviled egg thingy......I am trying...... cause I suck...... I suck I suck.... but I'm trying to pull myself out of this self loathing hell....... sometimes I think I deserve it.... and you know that is deep... let the hackers in on that~!........... I'm a freak.

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Adam sang "Cry" by Aerosmith and did a great job. I'm just tired of the screeching. Chris sang a Kanye song. All of them were really, really good tonight.

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I am watching the Biggest Loser also. I haven't watched it before, and it was really interesting!!! Some of the people look AMAZING!!!

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Tracy, you should NEVER leave us over guilt, ya know if all of us failed at the band, there'd still be nothing but love for each other; you should definitely know that.

I don't judge any of you (and I know none of you judge me) when we fall off the wagon. We're here for support, and friendship!

As for the virus, reboot your computer and hit f8 when it's restarting (when it starts back up), and open in safe mode with networking.

It kills any programs running. So then open internet, go to www.download.com and download adaware, spybot search & destroy, and trojan hunter (this isn't a free program, but it allows a free trial-all you need).

Run all 3 while in safemode (if something makes you reboot, make sure to open back up in safemode with networking). follow instructions for updating all 3 programs and do full system scans. Should fix you up.

Yay no Ice cream :thumbup:

Can't wait to hear Adam then, I like him the most but haven't liked ANY song he's sang.. I like that song though, can't say I met an Aerosmith song I didn't like.

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my puter has the virus that acts as an anti virus... I can't uninstall....... and it ticks me off..........

I boiled eggs tonight for a deviled egg thingy......I am trying...... cause I suck...... I suck I suck.... but I'm trying to pull myself out of this self loathing hell....... sometimes I think I deserve it.... and you know that is deep... let the hackers in on that~!........... I'm a freak.

Yeah...but you are our freak!!! And don't ever forget it sista...it is sooo good to see/read you back! missed you bunches!

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