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I am so embarressed to be asking this..but how soon after the bad can you have sex? Is all positions ok?

Thanks all...

Lisa Marie:nervous

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Hey, no reason to be embarrassed. Whatever feels good, do it! Seriously, my doctor's opinion on physical activity is that if you are up to doing anything, physically, that's a good indication that it will be OK to do.

Have fun! :(

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Actually, this is a great question. My husband asked me the same thing last might and I had no idea what to tell him. My follow-up visit is 19 days post op, as he is on vacation and I was hoping I wasn't going to have to wait until then to find out!!!!:laugh

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I waited about 10 days.....that's just me. Plus AF came to visit the week after my surgery....so as soon as she was gone I was back in action. Nothing acrobatic, but got the itch scratched.

My doc said I could do whatever I wanted unless it hurt, and then stop if it did.

No strict orders....

Have fun!!

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I think all this just liquids is really going to my head.....when read this thread my first thought was:

"Siiiigh, nice to know I CAN get jiggy...but I'm single so it's not like I'm GOING to...."

then my brain said:

"I need to find a band boy who would understand about this thing...."

which led my brain to twist and say:

"Wonder what pickup lines bandsters use.....'hey baby...let's rub our ports together and make magic'...or.....'I'll touch your port if your touch mine'...or the more romantic 'baby...if you PB, I'll hold your hair back' "

[giggle] I REALLY need to get to solids......eight days and counting.....

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'baby...if you PB, I'll hold your hair back'
Now that's true love! I'm sitting here laughing in my office. Thanks!

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My doc told me nothing 'strenuous' for 2 weeks, in which I included sex. And then I told my boyfriend (who was counting the days, I'm sure), that we could try, but if it hurt I was going to have to stop and he'd be out of luck. Warning in place, everything was fine, we just took it slow. :(

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I know this sounds strange coming from a guy, but......sex is the last thing on my mind right now. And believe me it used to consume my thoughts all day. Now I'm too busy watching the clock for when I can have another can of broth or a popsicle.

Sheesh....you women......you're all pigs!

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daisydoodle,

I just finished telling you I'm not interested in sex right now and you proposition me!!!

Pigs I tell you.....every last one of you! And now you refer to us guys as "bandboys"???? A sexist comment if ever I heard one.

What am I saying??????

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