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My husband and I are both having the band surgery in Tiajuana, Mx on Nov 13. I'm excited, but also nervous. Has anyone done it same day as their spouse? I'm a bit concerned that there won't be anyone there with us to help out. I just hope there are no complications for either one of us since we'll be so far from home. :eek: I've been enjoying reading posts on this forum. I'm sure I'll have lots of questions before it's all over.

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I didn't have it with my husband, but my sister and I did it together in June in Tijuana. Who is your doctor? Mine was Pompas. We went under back-to-back (me first). It was a breeze getting up and walking around right after I/we came out of recovery. Of course you'll still be sore and drowsy, but it will all be fine. She and another friend of ours have not had any complications. I did. My port flipped so (11 days ago) I had to have a 2nd procedure done to re-suture the port in order to get my fills. My sister has lost 40+ pounds. I have lost 31. But as soon as I heal, I'll be right back on the treadmill and doing my share to make this band do what it's supposed to do.

It will be fine. Just make sure you write down all of your questions and ask them BEFORE you go into surgery. It may be hard to pull everybody together to get your questions answered after the surgery because not everyone speaks English and it's all outpatient treatment.

Take care and best wishes.

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The dr doing it is Martinez (parner of Ortiz, I think). Thanks for the words of encouragement. We still haven't checked into who we'll use for the aftercare. Did you have to go back to Tiajuana to have the second procedure? Finances probably won't allow us to do that. Hopefully we'll find somewhere closer to have the fills and take care of matters that may come up. You're doing great. I can't wait to say I've lost 31 lbs!:eek:

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I found a fill doctor here, but the doctors in Tijuana took care of the second surgery free. I only had to pay for the flight, hotel, and the fill they did when they went in. All together it cost about $625. Not bad. It would have cost about $3K in the states just for the surgery.

I got my stitches out and decided that Monday I'm getting back on the treadmill. Hopefully the pounds will start dropping again.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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