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I am the third in my family to have weight loss surgery. My husband had the bypass about 5 years ago, took off 129 and has recently put on a considerable amount. We are "discussing" his options. Our youngest daughter had banding 2 years ago and dropped 75 lbs. the first year. She is keeping it off, but is consuming a lot more food than she should (she eats extremely slowly but eats a lot!). Out middle daughter was banded in December and has taken off 88 lbs. She still eats small portions and eats slowly. She "strays" occasionally to have something from her old way of eating!

I just turned 57 am a mom to 3 and a grandma to 4! I was banded on Aug. 19th and returned home 6 hours after surgery. Everything seemed uneventful. After nursing the other 3 I thought that I'd be an old pro! Yea, right!

My doctor (Dr. Abkin in Florham Park) had me on Clear Liquids for 48 hours and I started with Stage II yesterday. I had Jello and whipped cottage cheese in the am. There was no way I could eat the 4 oz I measured out, but did manage to get 2 oz down in about an hour+. For lunch I was allowed a low fat creamed Soup. I strained it before eating but wasn't able to have more than 1 oz. It seemed to feel like it stayed in my pouch for the rest of the day. I didn't have anything except small sips of clear liquids on and off until bedtime. I felt nauseous, but didn't vomit!

I felt a little better this morning and went back to clear fluids. The chicken broth was filling but couldn't even finish 1 oz before feeling full. I have to take my blood pressure med but I am afraid to take it!

**WHEN AND HOW SHOULD YOU TAKE YOUR MEDS?**

I see the doctor next Thursday, and since it is Sat. I don't want to call...

My daughters advice is to "take tiny sips". I do! This is getting sooooooo frustrating! :tongue:

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DJ teach...

my surgeon has us on 7 days clear to allow tummy to heal so I think you were smart to go back to liquids.

What BP meds are you taking? If you are taking a diuretic, I'd suggest holding off until monday when you can ask your prescribing doctor if you must keep taking it. (explain to him you have the band)

Initially it is hard to keep hydrated on the band and our surgeon recommends about 99% of his patients discontinue it.

Otherwise, if it's a pill that can be crushed, and can be taken on an empty stomach, crush it and take it. OR if it is small (I am taking diovan and it is little) take it with your clear liquid.< /p>

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OH and you will need to closely monitor your blood pressure. Its likely to improve and your meds will need to be adjusted and/or discontinued down the road....so you need to keep an eye on it.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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