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Those bullets pictures don't look all that tiny. I'd like to find a really little one. It seems to bother my bf that his finger is just not enough. I'd like to find something little that he can use with his finger. Hopefully if it was small enough, he wouldn't feel like he just getting a little help rather than using machinery on me. the round batteries they showed looked tiny and about the right size but I know they don't do anything unless they are put into something else.

Yeah, that's really why I dont go in for huge phallic shaped ones. I worry that DH will feel, well, unmanly.

I'm going to tell you a dirty little secret :pray2: We got that box of vibrators by accident, like I mentioned above, and the company rang asking for them back. Oh, shoot, they got lost in the mail! We binned most of them, but we kept one, but I have to use every ounce of willpower to tell DH most times that "no, I dont want that, you're enough for me". Oh, my GOD it is fantastic. I cant find a pic of it online. It has a normal sized vaguely penis shaped vibrator only it has this mean hook on the end and the head of it moves up and down, so the hook "strokes" the g-spot and then it has a vibrating bud that you hold against your er, more sensitive bits. The ony disappointing bit is that its over in like 30 seconds with some rather dirty screaming taking place. :grouphug:

But I so feel for poor DH, who is modestly endowed and more than adequate with a little help. But oh, if only he were 10 inches long and about 5 inches in circumference with a hook on the end :smile:

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Jacqui, I hope your DH doesn't frequent this forum. He'd be crushed. As would most DHs if they only knew... LOL :)

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Yeah, that's really why I dont go in for huge phallic shaped ones. I worry that DH will feel, well, unmanly.

I'm going to tell you a dirty little secret :mellow: We got that box of vibrators by accident, like I mentioned above, and the company rang asking for them back. Oh, shoot, they got lost in the mail! We binned most of them, but we kept one, but I have to use every ounce of willpower to tell DH most times that "no, I dont want that, you're enough for me". Oh, my GOD it is fantastic. I cant find a pic of it online. It has a normal sized vaguely penis shaped vibrator only it has this mean hook on the end and the head of it moves up and down, so the hook "strokes" the g-spot and then it has a vibrating bud that you hold against your er, more sensitive bits. The ony disappointing bit is that its over in like 30 seconds with some rather dirty screaming taking place. :)

But I so feel for poor DH, who is modestly endowed and more than adequate with a little help. But oh, if only he were 10 inches long and about 5 inches in circumference with a hook on the end :cool2:

Dang,:tt2: I think you just described me.:thumbup:

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Dang,:mellow: I think you just described me.:thumbup:

You're modestly endowed? :)

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I was gonna ask too..or do YOU actually have that special one that Jacqui wrote? I have never seen a real guy with a 10" that vibrates and has a bent head for gspot! Id watch that video!

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Your G spot is about 1"1/2 or so inches inside the vagina and must be felt for with a crook in the finger.With finger inside press toward the pelvis you should feel some bumpyness then a smooth hard area. When you rub it right youll feel and urge to pee. Dont wory. Just relax yourself and go with it. Make sure you went potty before you started sex. Trust me, your orgasms, even if still need clitoral stimulation ,will be much better.

Also try a shower message pulsating shower head.(hand held of course) That is great. Itll get both of you together. He will probebly use it more than you!

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I feel like the exception, I prefer a modestly endowed man. I have been with men who would put porn stars to shame, but it was like "woo hoo, look what I have" but they don't know what they are doing.

My husband, like most men believes he's "small." I don't think so, I think he'd be considered average. As much as I would love to say he's the best i've ever been with (in some positions, i would say he has been), the one who was, was less endowed than hubby. However, at "that" moment he like, well, you know what cannons do in cartoons, how they like do the accordion like thing and then shoot forward a bit when they blow? that's what it felt like! That was an awesome feeling.

omg, just realized this may be TMI, but we are in on off-topic thread.

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If you dont feel a sensation to urinate then you arnt pressing firmly or you havent found the spot. I think it has something to do with the bottom of your bladder. Depending on the position of your vagina that will vary on what you feel. Most women when rubbed that way would change positions because of that potty feeling. You have to get past that and relax.

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I have come to the conclusion that I have no G spot. I bought a G spot stimulator and I feel exactly nothing. My bf has looked for it, I have have looked for it, and there is nowhere inside that feels good. I don't get it. I asked my gyn about it. She said everyone has one, but some people's just aren't sensitive. I want pity from all of you.

I can only get off these days with the bullet right where I need it. Unfortunately, the bf still has his feelings hurt about this. I am going to talk to him about it again this weekend. He can use his finger and it takes forever, and I am sure he must get bored. Or we can break out that bullet and get things moving!

I don't think I have one either. I have read somewhere that not all women have one. I got tired of trying to find mine. I have tried everything like you to find it, but it's not happeneing.

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The ony disappointing bit is that its over in like 30 seconds with some rather dirty screaming taking place. :eek:

You are sooo funny...and its sooo true, hehehe. My fav friend..ahem..gets the 'job' done in a matter of minutes. It takes long to dig the darn thing out of its hiding spot in my closet, lol!

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I asked my gyn about the G spot and she said that everyone has one but some people's just aren't sensitive or responsive the way other people's are.

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Funny story (I thought): our local XXX shop has a sign out front that says, "Everyone needs a stimulus package...let us help you find yours". :eek:

About vibrators, ever since my vaginal hysterectomy, I can only manage something fairly small. Unfortunately, that does not describe my dh so it took awhile before we could comfortably have intercourse (and lots of lube!). I still prefer small.

How long did you wait for sex after your surgery?

~~anne

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