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Hey everyone. I'm not really sure what to post, just wanted to make an intro. I'm a 21 year old guy, considering getting the lap band. I've been really overweight ever since I was very young. I've tried losing weight so many times but just can't do it. The lap band sounds like exactly what I need.

I'm just to a point where I don't feel like I can keep going on like this anymore. I feel like I've missed out on so much of my life and I don't want to miss out on any more of it. Of course I'm a little scared of the lap band, but it's something I know I need to do. I'm ready.

Did anyone here have theirs done at Harper University Hospital in Detroit? This seems to be the right place for me, given that I'm only a few hours away and the cost is really good compared to everywhere else. I'd just like to reassure both myself and my mom that this is the right decision and the right place to do it.

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I'm not sure about your area but wanted to assure you, don't hesitate to get the band and don't procrastinate. It has changed my life. I would have given anything to be able to have this opportunity at your age. It is totally safe and easy to lose when it is adjusted correctly. And if anything ever goes wrong you can have it removed and your body is still intact! I have lost 100 lbs and even though I need a revision due to a slight slip, my life is not threatened and everything inside me is still intact. Good luck!

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Thanks for your reply. It's encouraging to hear from people who have actually had this done! I know it'll be tough changing my life and eating habits, but I've just gotta remember that it'll be totally worth it.

I do kinda have this fear that I'm gonna go in and not wake up. I know that's ridiculous because the risks are so low, but it's still tough. I think my mom probably fears that even more than I do. Although I know she's relieved I'm not talking about going to Mexico to have it done anymore. :embaressed_smile:

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I had my surgery in Port Huron. They have a lap band center there and were so very good at educating and briefing before the surgery, and afterwards. Since My Health Care paid for it, I don't know about the cost. I am very happy I had it done, and wish I could have done this earlier. I would check to make sure Harper has a good education center for the lapband. The assistance/follow up/dietician support would make a big difference after the surgery.

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Hi Libguy2753,

I too am thinking of getting the procedure done at Harper. I'm actually going to attend a 2 hour informational session today that I'm really excited about. However, I'm still researching surgeons. I was hoping you would share your story about the surgery, surgeon and post op. It would really help to get more information from someone local.

Thanks so much!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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