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OK, having emotional hunger right now. It's past suppertime, and right now, I feel absolutely no 'physical' hunger. I KNOW that I am satisfied, however, I feel like I need to eat! I KNOW it's an emotional thing....How do you get past this emotional hunger??:cool:

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can u go take a walk? or read a book or surf the web i dont recommend tv since every other commercial is a food commercial but u need to focus on something else if u can call a friend that helps or a family member i know u prob heard all this b4 but it does help and remember if u do eat w/o really being hungry u can get sick so its not worth it youll b ok if u concentrate on something else:thumbup:

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i chew ice. or i put ice in the blender with a splash of milk and some fresh fruit. it's fast and there's not really an extra calorie intake.

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Evenings are my hard time as well. I spent a lot of time last night in bed trying to think of things I can do. My psychologist says when this happens that you need to change what you are doing. Not going from reading to crocheting like I tend to do, but CHANGE, like get up and go somewhere, or call someone. I'm supposed to have a chart, but never made one. Sometimes on weekends I take on a cleaning project. A spring cleaning type thing for one room, top to bottom. It is moving around it takes up time, and at then end of the day I've accomplished something. I don't usually do it in the evening, though, and I'm with you on having emotional problems in the evening. In my case, I believe I'm lonely. I'm going to work on some ideas for what I can do for activities--I'm a crafty person, and work most often for charities so I try and tell myself that it's OK to sit and work when it's for charity. Time to be as good to myself as others, though, and figure out where I can go, who I can talk to, what I can join, something! I'm OK all day because I have a job with lots of people around, lots of phone calls, very busy talking to others. I might think "Oh, I think I'm hungry" and then I get busy and forget about it. Not at night, though. I even thought maybe I should work second shift. Not an option now, but in the future. Maybe I should volunteer somewhere, take some classes. I have a 13 year old, and once he's driving and working I'll have more freedom to be gone every evening if I want.

One thing I am doing is taking on a new foster dog. This takes a lot of time and energy-even in the evening-to housetrain them, work on socialization, and so forth. We already have 4 dogs, and I don't need another dog, but I DO need a project that demands my time. I always end up out in the yard more working with the dog instead of sitting on the couch or at my craft table. It's an unusual idea, but I'll throw it out there in case anyone else is a dog person.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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