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I've been reading here for a few days, Seems like a place I'd like to visit:smile:

I'm scheduled to go for my orientation on Friday, thr 11th. When I asked my primary care doctor if he thought I could be a candidate, He said sure!

He thinks it would help me alot.

I have COPD and fibromyalgia. I'd lost #80 taking Metabolife, working out with a personal trainer 3 times a week. I got down to 238 when I had to go to the ER one night cause I couldn't breathe. Stayed there for 5 days, IV steroids. nebulizer, oxygen, Then i get home and I'm researcing that, I come across how COPD patients lose weight, and they shouldn't. Well to me this means go back to old eating habits! Not being able to exercise didn't help either. On steroids to breathe about ever 6 weeks. I hate them! Become such a bitch, and a starving one...there came the first #30 pound gain,

Then quit smoking..its so hard! But i did manage to quit, but gained another 30 there,

Then I had something wrong with my leg. Turns out it was fractured, but i didn't find that out for 3 months. By this time. i'm in pain everywhere. Did my internet searchs, narrowed it down to Lupus, Rheumatoid Arthitis or Fibromyalsia. Had all of those tests, everything normal, but have the pain and the tenderpoints of fibro. So now I don't do much of anything...and gained another 20.

So I'm right back where I started 6 years ago! I hate the way I look, the huge clothes I have to wear now. I've tried everything, and i think this is my last hope. My back and legs hurt so bad that I can't do much. I know I'd still have the fibro pain, but I think it would be less if I wasn't packing all this fat around too...

Now that I've decided to do this, i wanna do it like tomorrow....lol

But I'll get my work done first...just wish I had a little more patience.

Well thats me, and any time you find me on, just say Hi

Nancy:thumbs_up:

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Hi and Welcome, Nancy!

Wow, you do have a lot going on! Don't despair, hon. We all have been there at some point in our life. The lap band may be your answer. I have diabetes and asthma so I can relate to your frustrations. I am a teacher and when I got home from school, I would crash. I have a smalll horse farm and doing chores was just agony. Depressed, I researched and found the LB might be my answer. I was scared but hopeful. I did not want bypass because I did not want to be cut up and rearranged. Thankfully, I was a good candiate for LB although if I had waited bypass would have been my only option.

Now four weeks to the date, I have lost 33 #. I did have a hard time with the anethesia after the surgery and just got over some type of stomach flu, (that was horrible) I feel much better today! My exercising has been somewhat hampered as I have a MCL tear in my knee. I am going a specialist in a few days to decide what to do... so you see, I can relate to you!!

Good luck and keep us posted on your journey!

Stacey

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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