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Hello, I am due for my first official step, the seminar next Tuesday. I am really conflicted about this, but I don't see another way available to get control of my weight, and life. I have many problems that the weight complicates. I'm looking for support, and I thank you for any offered.

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None of us got banded because it fun or because the lion on the commerical is cute. lol We did this because nothing else worked. I for one tried it all and had a little success but couldn't keep it off. I haven't lost really fast but that's O.K. I haven't really felt deprived either. I have lost 35 lbs and I haven't gained back anything. That's what has been great for me. In addition I figure in the 8 months since I was banded I would have also gain about 5-10lbs more if iI hadn't got the band. I will never see those 5-10lbs and that makes it worth while.

I'm 50 and I know there was only one way for my good health to go and that was down. Before the band my blood sugar as 104 Borderline, last month it was 90, in the safe zone. So worth it. My other blood tests were all better too! I don't snore anymore and I sleep sounder. My knees are also feeling great. I'm not trying to talk you in to anything but these are things the doctor doesn't always have time to mention.

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Hi I'm also at this stage I've already had my seminar, just got the call from the hospital, i guess to start the process, I'm so scared, i keep in mind i can always back out but all i have to look forward to is more weight gain, my knees kill me, don't know how much longer i can work like this, so i have to do something, this is my last hope.

tammy

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I can definitely relate to the knee problem. I have been told I need a complete knee replacement but was also told he really did not want to do it at 51 years old because I would need it again in about 10 or 12 years. I really hope this does help where I can continue to work and begin walking again and shopping. Good Luck

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Thank each of you for your reply. I am just not feeling with the program tonite. I keep thinking of all that lovely food I will miss...or maybe I can find a way to make it non-fattening. Food's been a big part of my life for so long, I love to cook. Can't say I do as much as it's just 2 of us again. Husband never really cared a lot about food, he'll eat just about anything I put in front of him. And if I'm not around, just make sure the Peanut Butter jar is. I have fought with my weight for the past 40 years, and lost the battle. One time I lost 100 lbs. fast, and ended up in the hospital for 2 wks, before the Drs. decided some exploratory surgery was called for. I broke my ankle at 27 and have had arthritis problems started from that - I no longer could walk correctly. My knees were both replaced about 10 years ago, (I was 50, at the time. Doing them both was a major mistake in terms of recovery for me, but got thru it.) I have had diabetes for about 15 yrs. Got a insulin pump last November. At the same time, I was diagnosed with Polymyalfia. The only med to control it is Prednisone. Between the pump and prednisone, I am just sitting back, watching myself expand. My level of exercise is practically nill, though the podiatrist is making progress with my arthritic feet. I now weigh over 300 lbs. and see no end in sight. Just gotta suck it up and do it, I guess, if I want to live another relatively comfortable 20 years. I am scared of what my life will be like if I can't get it under control.

As I read what I answered, can't see a reason to hesitate. I'll be more chipper tomorrow.

Thanks again.

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