Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

I'm here to help...



Recommended Posts

Hey, I'm here....Had the procedure at 8 PM last night.. Found the pocket, put in cathetor and drain....LOTS of new pain.....Expected pain, but it has knocked me on my kiester!!!!! I had weaned myself off of the morphine, but it's back, thank goodness.... Pain should adjust soon... Good news is that I've been able to have liquids today... going down fine.... He said that I won't be getting my band re-filled anytime soon... I told him I was okay with that now and that cream of wheat was about as far in the future as I've dared look... He said maybe tomorrow.... Wish I had the strength to comment on all the posts, but I'll have to catch up later... Please know that I am thankful for you and for your concerns for me.... Take care........ Julie

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hey, I'm here....Had the procedure at 8 PM last night.. Found the pocket, put in cathetor and drain....LOTS of new pain.....Expected pain, but it has knocked me on my kiester!!!!! I had weaned myself off of the morphine, but it's back, thank goodness.... Pain should adjust soon... Good news is that I've been able to have liquids today... going down fine.... He said that I won't be getting my band re-filled anytime soon... I told him I was okay with that now and that cream of wheat was about as far in the future as I've dared look... He said maybe tomorrow.... Wish I had the strength to comment on all the posts, but I'll have to catch up later... Please know that I am thankful for you and for your concerns for me.... Take care........ Julie

Julie you are doing better than I would in your place - I doubt I would be on the computer ;0) - I am glad they drained the problem and you got to eat - how did it taste.. Use the drugs if you are in pain - that's what they are there for..

Continued prayers - Hugs Janet

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Julie, Boy, it sounds like you have really gone through a tough time since I have joined this thread! I hope that you are feeling better soon!

Janet, Really idk what I would do without all of this knowledge you and everyone else is providing me with? I am just so glad to find people that keep me level and provide another point of view. I always looked at my sister my whole life and blamed in on genes. She got the skinny ones, I got the fat ones. When we were in high school, I would really watch what I ate and ran 10 miles a day! I played lacrosse and ice hockey. She would cheerlead and eat a bag of doritos in one sitting. Once adulthood arrived, you're right! She has to exercise and doesn't have that same food addict personality that I have. Thanks for taking me out of the past and putting me in real-time!

-Meredith

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am going out of town today and won't be back on here until Friday evening. I am so glad I finally posted on here this week and was given so much good advice. Have a good week. Thanks to all of you who took time to help me.

Cheryl

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Just a quick note to say Long, Apples and Phyllser your photos are Fabulous!!! You guys all look really good. Keep up the great work. :wub:

Ms Bubba: I'm glad to hear you can take in some fluids. I bet in the next few days you will be filling much better and get your strength back once you can start to eat again.

Have a great day everyone!!!

Denise

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I just can't keep up with you gals! So many posts...

Boos.............good to see you back! We miss you on July Butterflies too!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Julie, Boy, it sounds like you have really gone through a tough time since I have joined this thread! I hope that you are feeling better soon!

Janet, Really idk what I would do without all of this knowledge you and everyone else is providing me with? I am just so glad to find people that keep me level and provide another point of view. I always looked at my sister my whole life and blamed in on genes. She got the skinny ones, I got the fat ones. When we were in high school, I would really watch what I ate and ran 10 miles a day! I played lacrosse and ice hockey. She would cheerlead and eat a bag of doritos in one sitting. Once adulthood arrived, you're right! She has to exercise and doesn't have that same food addict personality that I have. Thanks for taking me out of the past and putting me in real-time!

-Meredith

Meredith

We all look at skinny pple and see them eating a pint of ice cream - a 1/2 of a cake or a bag of chips - or donuts whatever - and we love to thing that they do this all the time - the diff between them and us is they do it OCCAISSIONALLY and then they will eat liter the next day and up the exercise - where we ate like that EVERYDAY and didn't move our butts. Wishful thinking...

I can tell you back in my skinny days (early 20's) I would make a box of rice a roni on the weekend and I would eat it all weekend - but then I moved to eating the whole box in just one sitting - I would buy candy and eat it over a period of time - not one sitting..

So I do know the diff - in High School - I came home from school eat Cookies & chips - but I did a lot of walking so I lost weight even eating those foods and it wasn't every single day...

I do have a faint memory of being that skinny chick - I know how I use to eat and how I progressed in to eating more and more and moving less and less...

There really aren't too many pple out there who can eat tons and tons of junk - not move and not be fat - Yep there are a very few who can - but sooner or later it will catch up with them...

I am going out of town today and won't be back on here until Friday evening. I am so glad I finally posted on here this week and was given so much good advice. Have a good week. Thanks to all of you who took time to help me.

Cheryl

Cheryl - Have a good time !! Talk to you when you get back

I just can't keep up with you gals! So many posts...

It's cuz you are on FB instead of here :wub:

Boos.............good to see you back! We miss you on July Butterflies too!

Charlene we have alot of pple (myself included) who are on Facebook too - on the 50's thread they have been refering to it as cheating on LBT - heck some have even joined twitter - oh heck No - between lbt - fb and work and my life there just aren't enough hours in the day :0)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Originally Posted by Charlene K viewpost.gif

Boos.............good to see you back! We miss you on July Butterflies too!

Charlene we have alot of pple (myself included) who are on Facebook too - on the 50's thread they have been refering to it as cheating on LBT - heck some have even joined twitter - oh heck No - between lbt - fb and work and my life there just aren't enough hours in the day :0)

__________________

Janet, I am on facebook..........so what do I do? Do I search cheating on LBT? too funny!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

So is everyone going to be leaving here for Facebook? 50's has already slowed down. I can hardly keep up here, would hate to think of learning something new. :)

Just got home from my volunteering at the hospital. And.....guess who they asked to train to become a support group leader??? I'm scared to death yet excited at the same time. The formal training isn't til Oct. but I will be doing some sort of online training via Obesity Help in the meantime. Not sure when I will start. We have 2 leaders at my group. We meet every other week and it's a different leader on the 1st week than it is the 3rd week. Well the 1st week leader had to step down. So......will keep you posted. It's for byapss and band and they also want me to observe some more surgeries! That sounds exciting, I really enjoyed it when I did observe the band surgery last fall.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

So is everyone going to be leaving here for Facebook? 50's has already slowed down. I can hardly keep up here, would hate to think of learning something new. :)

Just got home from my volunteering at the hospital. And.....guess who they asked to train to become a support group leader??? I'm scared to death yet excited at the same time. The formal training isn't til Oct. but I will be doing some sort of online training via Obesity Help in the meantime. Not sure when I will start. We have 2 leaders at my group. We meet every other week and it's a different leader on the 1st week than it is the 3rd week. Well the 1st week leader had to step down. So......will keep you posted. It's for byapss and band and they also want me to observe some more surgeries! That sounds exciting, I really enjoyed it when I did observe the band surgery last fall.

You go girl - Congratulations !!!! I bet you are on cloud nine and this kind of stuff helps keep you on track !!!

No we aren't leaving LBT :thumbup:- it's just on fb you can play games - I love pathword - parking wars - it's all Phyl's fault she is the one who got us hooked... There' possum toss - mob wars and some farm thing that I haven't figure out yet..

Between 3 threads - the p.m.s I get and FB - I don't get anything else done - that's why there are days I just stay away from the computer all together :00

Well it's 4 I get to go home - gym weight training legs - so will talk to you all later

I bet Matt or Lil get kicked off Idol tonite - or maybe Chris

I love Matt & Kris - but I think the bottom 2 may be Adam & Allison - or Adam & Danny???

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well I think I'm calling the doc tomorrow. I have no energy. I thought I could hold out but it doesn't seem to be getting better. I really enjoy this restriction because I'm never hungry but I can't even eat meat. Thats a bummer.

I have Facebook, it's a blast.

Oh and IMHO, Adam's not going anywhere. I think he'll win it and if he doesn't you will hear him in the radio all the time, like Chris Daughtry. :)

Denise

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well I think I'm calling the doc tomorrow. I have no energy. I thought I could hold out but it doesn't seem to be getting better. I really enjoy this restriction because I'm never hungry but I can't even eat meat. Thats a bummer.

I have Facebook, it's a blast.

Oh and IMHO, Adam's not going anywhere. I think he'll win it and if he doesn't you will hear him in the radio all the time, like Chris Daughtry. :)

Denise

I meant top 2:tongue2: - Adam is going to win idol :0)

If you can't eat meat you are too tight... You can't be so tight that you can't eat real food...

Let us know..

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes, I have had that problem for the past several days. I was banded Sept. 30, 2008. That sick thinking overtook me -- I have lost 40 pounds and have 30 (not 20 like I said earlier -- my bad) to go -- so I figured I could do it "my way." Well, my ego got in the way and I gained back 3 pounds. By turning to this group, my head is on straight again, thank goodness. Someone suggested reading your literature again from the doctor -- that's a good idea. It will give you a sense of order and suggestions. I keep a count of my Protein grams and calories every day. All of my food is either fat-free or very low-fat, so I don't have to count fat grams any more. It's so simple when I read suggestions -- drink 64 oz of liquid a day -- one-half hour before meals and one hour after meals -- eat Protein first -- no bread, rice of Pasta for me, which I don't miss -- no carbonated beverages (I haven't had one since my surgery). My problem has been lately I've been eating sugar-free and non-fat or low-fat foods, but in quantities that are ridiculous. I just ate them until I had that stuffed feeling -- the feeling that settles any uncomfortable emotions I might be having. I've had to regroup and limit stress as much as I can. Well, anyway, this was supposed to be a "quick" reply. Sorry. Keep coming here and reading. There are some great mentors I'm finding out. So I need to try to give back as much as I'm getting from all of you.

Betty

187/147/117

9/30/08

Dr. Woodman, Memphis, TN

Thanks so much for letting me know I was not the only one that had this feeling. I actually have pulled out all my literature and I am re reading it. Again thanks

Everyone on this post is so helpful. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • vsg.with.sharon

      Hey everyone!
      I’m new here! Looking for some friends! 🥰
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×