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Welcome to LBT Mark

Tis Good to have another Texan with us ...if we keep this up we're gonna out number the rest of you folks :cheeky But then again ...that would'nt be unusal for Texans 2 Rule once again (hee:p hee)

Paula, Ginny, Leatha, Betty, Carla, Marie, and other patriotic Texans ...you people have permission to pinch me for that self rightous comment ...lol

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Singing is not something I do very well

So I have no input there except I had pain and swelling in my diaphram for 3 weeks after surgery, kept feeling like I had to burp but couldnt get it up and out so that maybe the only thing I can see may prevent a problem in the first few weeks post op

But Congratulations to you on your upcoming surgery. You will be one of us in a few days

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>hijack: Hey Lisa Green, we Chicagoans are growing in number, so watch out or you (can I say "y'all" with a Midwest accent and not sound like an idiot?) will be singing the Chicago blues! <hijack

Guitarman, I think you've made the right choice. Good luck!

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I have found a way to keep things as physically easy as possible, otherwise, life is normal.

My Belly is sore/tender and I move slowly, but I am moving all over the place at home. I feel rather normal, just slower and my tummy growls and gurgles. I am also surviving on ALOT less calories due to the liquid diet (still clear although I will add V-8 today...never thought I'd look forward to V-8!) so energy needs to be conserved. I am also not as clear headed/quick thinking as usual. Everything is slower and my world is smaller for now. It's working. And I feel fine!

Okay, Mark, I have been thinking of you this evening and now that day 3 is over, I need to reconsider a few of my above statements. Life is not normal, I do not feel normal, It's working but I don't feel "fine" I feel like Iv'e been beat up by a band of thugs and run over by a bus and I barely lifted a finger today, as compared to what I am normally able to accomplish in a day and yet still feel lazy. I am not clear-headed, I am exhausted and fatigued and I am not able to care for my family without help, I can only care for myself. My sister will come over tomorrow while hubby works a half day and keep my son from head-butting me in the belly (I never realized how much chubby mommy hugging he got while I'm sitting and he walks up to me and buries his face in my breasts/belly area...he'll be a well adjusted man someday, huh?) so it is HARD and the calorie issue is a big factor. My body is healing and taking every stitch of liquid food to accomplish just that. I certainly coudn't imagine playing a guitar and singing at a wedding and having enough wits about me to do that well. Get a Sub. I know you already said you would so that's good but my post this morning was a bit rosier than tonight's reality...just to let you know. I don't think you will regret the sub. (SIGH) I hope tomorrow is better.

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Okay, I usually call all the dogs in the neighborhood in my morning showers and they all start howling.... but shortness of breath is definitely an issue. Even climbing the stairs too fast is hard for the first 3 weeks at least.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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