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I got a 2nd fill of 2 cc's and they had to take out .04 because I couldn't drink Water.< /p>

Okay we went away for the weekend and every meal out was a minor disaster. I guess I eat differently when I'm out than at home. I had a skillet with chicken and ended up vomiting the whole thing. the chicken just wouldn't go down at all. Very unattractive. Of course I wasn't hungry after that.

Then i had some queso dip with chips at Quodba's and slimmed that big time. So I haven't learned how to eat out yet.

But i did have success with tortilla Soup at Quodba's the next day. So soup it is for now when I'm out.

The good news is that I lost weight on my road trip and didn't feel deprived at all. I wasn;t hungry after all these unfortunate dinners out.

Do you all avoid chicken and meat when you go out and stick to Soups and easy stuff?

Sadie

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Man, I usually try to avoid meat when I go out to eat...unless its Fish. And then Im super paranoid about pb'ing in public, so i chew everything probably more than needed...

A lot of people cant handle salads but ive never had a problem with one. I order that or Fish when im out, if not..soups pretty safe. :lol:

at least you lost some pounds :)

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When we went out to eat, we went to one of our favorite restaurants and asked the waiter if they could make me a grilled chicken breast and some steamed vegies. At another restaurant, they allowed me to order from the children's menu. Now, I just order a regular meal and bring the leftovers home to eat for the rest of the week. Chicken and pork are my Protein of choice and i haven't had much of a problem with them, just when I eat too fast.

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I'm paranoid when eating out too, I'm always extra careful. And as a rule, I have had the easiest time with my band, hardly EVER PB, but its so embarrassing when it does happen that I'd do almost anything to avoid it.

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I make certain i chew everything well, the only time i have had problems when out was with sandwiches - half a sandwich german rye with chicken and salad or tuna and salad, when i have half sandwich at home no problems think it is a stress thing,or maybe eat too fast and try to fit it into my lunch break.

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Ah, yes, fitting it into a lunch break! I dont work, so normally can take all the time I want and if I'm rushed, I just dont eat, knowing I can eat a bit later. But when I'm on teachign rounds, its torture, especially when we have yard duty and have to eat in 15 minutes.

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Most of the time, I close the door to my office and sit at my desk to eat lunch. However, on payday, I usually go to lunch with the girls. That is when I tend to have problems. I feel like I am rushed and if eat too slow, then I think they are wondering why. I just need to learn to get over that, I guess.

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I think I am going to just avoid chicken for a while and get used ot eating out with my band.

Don't get me wrong- I love my band! It is more than worth it to feel like a normal person with food.

Courage to all on your journey;

Sadie

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