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Hey, not sure what to do. I feel like I am at my last straw if I want to see my 3 boys graduate from high school. I want to know from the start to finish what the surgery consists of. The good and the bad. You know the tv shows only show the good parts. Is this really a nightmare? Help!

skipper from georgia

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Hey, not sure what to do. I feel like I am at my last straw if I want to see my 3 boys graduate from high school. I want to know from the start to finish what the surgery consists of. The good and the bad. You know the tv shows only show the good parts. Is this really a nightmare? Help!

skipper from georgia

You have to make the decision based on all information you can find. As with any surgery, all people react differently and heal differently. You cannot diminish the risks as the Lap Band is surgery, but for many, it is life altering. Be an educated consumer. You wouldn't buy a car without test driving, reading up on any recalls, etc. Scour this website and others. Be sure you know what you're getting yourself into. It hasn't been easy for ANYONE on here, but for most, it has been worth the effort. Good luck with whatever options you make. Welcome to the website. I'm sure you'll find people very informative. :thumbs_down:

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Also, check with your insurance company for coverage information. Finances do play into it a lil bit, more than I'd like to see.

EVERYONE STRUGGLES. From reading this site for more than a year, everyone has lil issues here or there (PBing, Sliming, Tightness, etc.), but it seems most of the problems are while you are learning how to eat again after the surgery (caused by eating too quickly or not chewing enough).

IT IS A MOUNTABLE STRUGGLE. Unlike struggling through 6 months of Atkins where you're just gonna gain the weight back, this is a VERY surmountable struggle in the beginning that leads to a life long change.

I kind of view it like getting a tattoo. I spent 7.5 hours in EXCRUCIATING and CONSTANT pain to get something that was/is gonna last the rest of my life. Kind of weak comparison, considering the benefits of a tattoo versus lap band, which just proves my point. The little bit of struggle is legitimized by the life of good health.

This is my opinion from reading this site. I spent two years deciding on this surgery. Aside from the risks the previous poster talked about, you should know that while you're getting used to the band, life sucks. They call it bandster hell around here... day by day it gets easier.

I will be banded in 14 days.

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Hey, not sure what to do. I feel like I am at my last straw if I want to see my 3 boys graduate from high school. I want to know from the start to finish what the surgery consists of. The good and the bad. You know the tv shows only show the good parts. Is this really a nightmare? Help!

skipper from georgia

Hello my fellow Georgian! Welcome to LBT!

This is a great site to do your research. You will find lots of info here. Make sure you go in the complications forum and you will see some of the bad there. Everyone is different though, some have a harder time than others.

In whatever you decide, I wish you the best!

Where in Georgia are you from?

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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