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Hi there! This is my first official post here.

Here's my story...

I am in my late 30's and have battled the weight thing since as far back as I can remember. Done everything from Weight Watchers to "Lose Weight While You Sleep" programs. Nothing worked. I managed to get myself up to the heights of the scale, well over 300 pounds. That scared me.

I went throught the pre-surgery ritual back in 2003 -2004 only to be denied due to a technicality with the 6 months of physician supervised visits. Long story...but I'll tell you if you really want to know. I was set with a date, started the pre-surgery liquid diet and everything. Then it happened...DENIED! I was devistated.

Well, last summer after an emergency room visit scared the beegeebees out of me, I began the trek again. (No, the BeeGeeBees is not an all-brother band from the 70's) This time I am making sure everything is done right and every stinkin' piece of paper is included, every month had a visit, and every rule is followed. I am on the pre-pre-surgery diet and am doing fairly well. I'm at the point that when I "cheat" I don't feel so good...mentally and physically.

I am married to an awesome man who would walk through coals for me. He's a total computer geek and I love every ounce of his geekness....well, not every ounce but almost. We don't have kids yet (thanks to my weight) but as soon as it's gone and I get the OK, we're gonna go at it like rabbits!

I work as a wedding planner here in Sunny Florida. I absolutely love my job and hope to love it even more once I shed more weight.

So that's me. I love to make people laugh. I think I am pretty funny...sometimes I think I am funnier than other people think I am...but that's OK.

Like I said, I look forward to getting to know you. I am excited about the encouragement that a site like this can bring. I know this journey isn't easy for all of us. I expect some difficult times too...but together I hope to make it through.

All the Best!!!

~Marzipan~

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Good luck this time marzipan. insurancesare so STUPID! to put it mildly.Some of the stuff thay cover without blinking an eye and this they make you jump thru hoops to get approved.:thumbup: They hollar preentative medicine, well help us out here. It's cheaper having the surgery than a lot of the other health risk. Most of us have tried everything under the sun and could'nt do it or it all came back plus more!. Sorry one of my pet peeves.:tongue_smilie:

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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