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Hi there everyone! I was banded on Dec 28th and I am just wondering if I am at a "normal" stage. I had a lot of pain after surgery, much more than I was expecting. Last Friday (2 weeks out) was the first time I felt somewhat normal. Earlier last week I had some severe pain at the top of my stomach for which the nurse pract. told me to take liquid ibuprofen as she thought it was swelling. Well still to this day I can hardly eat anything at all (and my band was not filled at all as of yet) and I can only eat pretty much liquidy things without getting severe pain. Even mashed potatoes with minimal lumps hurts sometimes, and scrambled eggs hurt too. I have found I can eat cheerios in milk as long as i chew up the cheerios really well. I just feel like this isnt normal two weeks out especially since my band is completely open. I just dont want to live on Slim Fast forever, I could have done that on my own. Please Help!!!

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my guess is after two weeks out your still gonna have swelling. but other than that i felt ok. and im suprised your allowed ibuprophin. i was told no ibuprophin, i would talk to the dr. not the nurse practictioner about that one.

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I felt similar when I first started on puree. Make sure whatever you have has lots of liquid. It will help slide through the band easier. Soon you should notice that you will need to make it thicker to stick in your pouch longer.

Have you tired cottage cheese? It has been a lifesaver for me. It is now officially my comfort food.

-UG

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Yeah I was only allowed to have the ibuprofen for 3 days, this was per the nurse pract. at Weight Loss Surgical Center where I had the surgery. After your surgery, you never see the surgeon again there. You only deal with the N.P.'s I just hear other people say they are able to eat chicken and stuff and dont feel any restriciton and it makes me worried. I guess everyone is different. :smile:

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Airika,

I didn't try anything solid for three weeks so I'm not sure about the pain. Are you following the diet plan that the center gave you? At three weeks I was allowed purrees. For my dr. that meant Soups that had been completely blended and the like. Mashed potatoes were still out at this point. I could have cream of wheat but it had to be completely runny. I have to admit that since I didn't care for that consistancy of stuff I stayed on cream Soups during this week. After 4 I could have mashed potatoes and that consistancy...a lot of oatmeal and cottage cheese.

I guess my advice would be to take it slow. If some food is bothering you take it back a day or so. My guidelines said there will still be swelling on some people for up to 5 weeks and only to eat what was tolerated.

Good luck!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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