TTC

[SaRose 20]

I was recently told that I have PCOS. My husband and I are currently trying to conceive, and have been for over a year. I get very frustrated and critical of myself because I keep hearing “you might have better luck if you lose more weight”. I’m so proud of where I am, though. I’m 7 years post-GBS, and I’ve kept all the weight off (125 pounds). But it always feels like it’s never good enough.
Any tips or advice?

Thanks!

-Sarah

[WendyJane 45]

I strongly suggest you see a fertility doctor and have both you and your partner checked so you know where the problem is. That doctor could prescribe medications that may help you get pregnant. I have tried, and never had children unfortunately, but I have adopted. Having your own is very meaningful, and very different than adopting but I love my kids so much. I know the feeling, after trying and even trying IVF for several cycles, it never came to fruition for me. Don't give up, don't get frustrated. When it is right, it is right, and if you are overly critical about things, emotions do affect the ability to conceive. I wish you the best.