bthompson82 32 Posted February 6, 2020 Hi!!! Whelp I put a lot in that title lol.. but I’m a black 37 year old femme lesbian, looking for friends, or who knows ! Tell me about yourself ! 3 Maryuumah, Jaxon Blayke and Janel Obama reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lynda486 784 Posted February 6, 2020 Hey there, I am a 54 year old married female from Missouri. I have 2 grown boys, a small flock of chickens and a dog. I work part time in a medical office. Always looking for friends and support! Welcome to the forum! 2 NerdySongBird and bthompson82 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mcfluffington 179 Posted February 6, 2020 I am a celibate cat owner. Go figure! LOL Talk about a stereotype. Welcome to the forum. It would be interesting to see how people identify themselves. I didn't even say I was female. I guess cat owning is a stronger part of my identity. Odd. 3 Jaxon Blayke, bthompson82 and alex76 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bthompson82 32 Posted February 6, 2020 Good morning folks ... ( morning for me I’m in California) thanks for replying nice to know there are lgbt people and ally’s here ❤️ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bthompson82 32 Posted February 6, 2020 @ajtylo... can you clarify what you mean by “play” I truly hope it’s not what I’m thinking. My post is a safe space for all people but especially the LGBT community. So if you are here looking for something.. this is not it. 5 Charming23, TheRealMeIsHere!, sillykitty and 2 others reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JRT Mom 919 Posted February 6, 2020 I am a 65 year old married female, but as I get older I hate the use of labels for myself. I platonically love ALL nice people regardless of whatever labels they use for themselves! If I HAD to use a label I would call myself mostly gender neutral pansexual monogamist. 2 bthompson82 and TheRealMeIsHere! reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AJ Tylo 1,399 Posted February 6, 2020 Its not i truly would rather hang out with lesbian girls they seem to be more real! I have a few friends that are gay and i prefer going out and hanging out better then the Naples Princess's that are money hungry and a pain in the ass. Not stereotyping anyone but In Naples Florida it is hard to find a good girl who does not have a agenda to date. The word play could be conceived in another way it never was meant to. 2 1 tarotcardreader, JRT Mom and bthompson82 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheRealMeIsHere! 863 Posted February 7, 2020 Hi, welcome all! I do not like labels, either, as I never did fit nicely into a box. More like a little in a LOT of boxes 🤣 That said, the best words for me are gender neutral, gender Fluid, asexual (which on dating sites, NO one sees that the 'a' is attached, nor knows what it means, lol!) I really would like to meet some people who enjoy similar activities, near me, no idea how to do that. Tried dating sites, making it clear where I stand as well as my interests/hobbies, no dice ☹️ Been single since 2007, I'm better for it. Sounds cliche' but I 'found' myself, love & like myself (NEVER could say that in the past) & am stronger in so many ways. I'm becoming a crazy cat lady 🤪😻 4 JRT Mom, Starwarsandcupcakes, RichelleGetsFit0309 and 1 other reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bthompson82 32 Posted February 7, 2020 @ajtylo thank you so much for the explanation!!! And welcome Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bthompson82 32 Posted February 7, 2020 @therealmelshere! My brother is asexual!! He has never dated , he finds Both men and woman attractive. But has no interest in dating anyone let alone being intimate with them. 1 TheRealMeIsHere! reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheRealMeIsHere! 863 Posted February 8, 2020 @bthompson82 It's only recently that I've had the words to use. I always knew I disliked intimacy except for rare times. Same with gender neutral, I think I always felt that way, raised my kids that way, no "boy" or "girl" toys, just toys. Does he have close friends that understand and accept him? 1 bthompson82 reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bthompson82 32 Posted February 9, 2020 @therealmelshere he has never expressed it but he is almost 30 , and he has never dated, he will agree that a man or woman he sees is good looking but that’s about it. We don’t bug him about it 1 TheRealMeIsHere! reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NerdySongBird 29 Posted July 1, 2020 I'm a 29 year old female. Im also Polyamorous and Pansexual lol I know that's a mouthful. I'm from Kansas City Missouri and I love singing and always love making new friends!Sent from my SM-G950U using BariatricPal mobile app 2 orange_lily and fontjm reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
minimamaz00m 61 Posted July 13, 2020 I'm a 50 year old single female, pan and demisexual... although I'm more of a 4.5 on the Kinsey scale. I live in Seattle with my just-graduated from HS son and my 2 cats, a gray tabby and a tortie... my daughter is in college and doing her own thing. Just to give you an idea of how much of a crazy cat lady I am... as I swipe through dating apps, if someone says they have dogs I swipe left! I just don't want to fall for someone who I could never ultimately live with, because my cats are not into dogs. haha Looking forward to some friendships here! If you are from the Seattle area HMU! Maybe after COVID we could get together for coffee. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cass2020 3 Posted September 6, 2020 Im also looking for LGBTQI friends. I'm 36 pansexual from Australia. Sent from my SM-G973F using BariatricPal mobile app 1 Jaxon Blayke reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites