A few things that are bothering me.
1. I have a hematoma next to one of my incisions. Surgeon and nurse said it’ll go away and probably drain through my incision, which sounds terrifying. ????
2. My blood thinner shots make me feel lightheaded and they hurt sometimes.
3. I have a pulling pain when I get up and walk and it makes me lean forward. Pain level is about a 2 or 3.
4. No wheezing, or coughing but I have to take deep breaths every little bit (thinking it’s anxiety)
5. I feel really weak and dizzy and tired.
6. Apparently I look rough too, according to my boyfriend.

Anyone have things like this?

I didn't have a hemotoma and I don't think I had that reaction to the blood thinner, but I guess that makes sense. Both of those are temporary (well, so are all of those things you mentioned...). I had the pulling pain - that only lasts a few days. Tiredness and weakness can go on for awhile - a month or two.

Numbers 1-5 are within normal range of expected early post op conditions

Number 6 needs to be addressed immediately. You need more positive reinforcement now more than ever.

Perhaps you look authentic, brave and beautiful instead

Good Luck ?

You had major surgery. That is what you should tell your boyfriend.

I agree with the others, that type of insensitivity, even if joking, should be concerning. You need both physical AND mental support right now. I felt like complete **** after surgery, I didn't need my wife telling me what I already knew and she was nothing less than helpful and supportive.

Edit: Oooooh, I didn't know you couldn't curse on here. that's funny. lets go with Poo instead of Sh*t. lol

Edited September 12, 20197 yr by Jobber