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Hi All,

I sent an email to Ann Marie yesterday, and received a really unusal phone call from her last night apologizing to me like crazy for her company and Kristy letting me down. She told me she had fired Kristy last Wednesday for numerous reasons. ie. making false promises, diverting company funds to strange accounts, etc. etc. She spoke to me for about 30 minutes. She also told me she was not even aware I was a client of her company, but that since my email she had located my file?????? Pretty weird! She also promised to call me first thing this morning to help me get my medical records and a receipt for my lap band sugery which I was not given. I have yet to hear from her today. She told me she has relocated to Arizona to take over the office there that "Kristy screwed up so badly." She also told me she had "cleaned house there and let everyone go as they were all relatives of Kristy."

I also told Ann Marie that I had left numerous messages for her over the past several weeks a never received a call back from her. She claimed she was unaware of these messages. She also did hold a phone conversation with me about 3 weeks ago via cell phone regarding transportation info I needed for Mexico, and we had to end the call due to a bad connection....but yet she didnt know I was a client, or remember speaking with me????? The phone call only got stranger the futher into I got with her. She was telling me she wanted to send me a check to help pay for my next fill here in Orlando, and that she would fly me out to Las Vegas if I wanted to for a fill there. She was all over the place during this call, and sounded really stressed, upset and pretty confused. Go figure.....

Staci

Orlando FL

banded in Mexico 12-14-04

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Very interesting..kind of concurs with all the posts on Bandsters and Mexican bandsters about Belighter. It has been said by a member over there that she did not have a business license in Las Vegas and it caught up with her which is why she is now in Arizona..something about misrepresentation who knows if it is true or not..Lots of unhapy people with Belighter though and that is very sad :cool:

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Okay, digging around has proven fruitful. The gal I have been talking to is a patient facilitator who works directly for Dr. Kuri. She is not a referral person, such as what you all have described above. Whew! I will continue to research and just to clarify for anyone else reading and concerned...

Dr Kuri's website Beliteweight.com is not at all associated with the Belighter.com people discussed above, nor is he set up to do business similarly. If, by chance, I find out otherwise, you will be the first to know. Good luck with your pursuits regarding Belighter. I'm sorry you all have been so displeased. It really is a shame, how you have been, what's the word, discarded? I'm really sorry. PM me if there is something I need to know. thanks!

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Let me start by appoligising to stacy directly. You deserved to have your phone calls returned, and I did return every message I ever received from you.

Secondly I am not going to go in to detail due to the fact that speaking ill of others has never proven to bring anything good. I will just say that only one member of my family besides myself worked for belighter, and she did not fire us, we left due to un beleivable circumstances with Ann Marie.

I would not beleive everything you hear, if you read through the bandster archives you will find a long history of complaints surrounding belighter, before I even was employed with belighter.

I did not redirect money, I didnt even have access to ann maries account or deposit information. I honestly feel sad that Ann Marie has been calling patients and making false statements. In the past week I have received emails from six people who i assisted in coordinating their surgeries, explaining that Ann Marie had called them and rambled on and on about me. Each one of them were upset with her, and she did nothing but make them not want anything to do with her or belighter.

I honestly truly care about each person I worked with. The biggest mistake I made was ever being associated with belighter.

I appoligise to anyone I have offended. I hope you truly know I would never intentionally cause problems.

I do know that words mean nothing, and actions speak the truth, so I am not going to spend more time on this topic as I need to put the horrible experiance with belighter behind me and move forward to positive things in my life.

Thank you for making me aware. I only wish I had never ever worked with belighter.

Kristie

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Kristy,

Let me respond directly to you....NO you did not return calls to me, as a matter of fact I did not hear from you once you had my $1200 fee till one week after my surgery!

I went through my entire surgery experience with out YOU or anyone else from belighter even bothering to call to see if I was dead or alive!!! I did try several times after I returned to Florida (2 days after my surgery) to call you with very important questions and needing help and I all got was your voice mail!! I finally reached you the next Tuesday (A WEEK AFTER MY SURGERY). Some follow up care! The few times I called you after that you were always brief and rushed. You did actually call me once or twice when you needed something, like info on you and your children coming to Orlando to stay at the resort I manage. Some of the staff at belighter did try to assist me in your absence, which was often. I dont know who is more full of it, you or Ann Marie! Could be a tie. And, Im still waiting on thoses medical records and copies of my bills you promised.

Staci

Orlando FL

banded in Mexico 12-14-05

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Hello all...

I am new here and have been researching Belighter. Not to use them for my surgery, which I am one day out, but to research the owners wh have been threatening me. I know some of the people some of you have been talking about and before I would say they were die hard fans, I would check restraining orders and pendng law suits again Belighter. Some of the "die hards" were trying to get out without being threatened, having family threatened, or quietly.

If your going to file suit, do it soon before the ship sinks. if you used them, go to the surgeon for aftercare. My coordinators have me all set up for aftercare and did so before surgery.

I have posted many times on bandsters and mexicanbandsters, check the posts. I just want everyone to know to act quick if they are going to act.

Teresa, the post you referred to was sent to bandsters and mexicanbandsters. Anita is a nice, honest person. Just didn't work well with Belighters ethics. i spoke to her when she was with Belighter and when she left heard horrible things from AnnMarie about her. I have talked to her since and her heart is in the right place. She might be able to help you. I think she knows a lot of information.

Best of luck to all of you. I hope i can get support here as well as the other boards.

Brad

01/26/05

down 4 pounds

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Dear Fellow Bandsters,

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I feel that it is about time that I respond to all the posting regarding Belighter lately.

The most unfortunate thing is that I cannot post this to any of the Yahoo support boards where most of the bad information is being said because I am considered a medical personal and they will not allow me to post there. Which is so totally biased anyways because several other Doctor’s patient coordinators post there daily and they are not considered medical personnel. go figure?

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I am sure that there are some of our clients here that were not happy with the service that Belighter may have provided to them as is with any Doctor’s office as well and for this Belighter does extend our apologies and we would like the opportunity to try to resolve any matters with anyone out there that used our service and needs help at this time.

Best Regards,

Ann Marie

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Uhhhh. Sure, okay. Whatever.

I just think it's highly unethical to post such personal details about someone in a public forum. Knowing nothing else about you, Ann Marie, by doing that you've shown that you know absolutely nothing about professionalism.

And why are you posting the same message under different names?

This thing just gets weirder and weirder...

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Is this the Ann Marie that didn't return my calls or my emails? This is Kathy P----

I had surgery in May, I tried and tried to get someone to answer me in regards to my

records. No one not even the office would contact me. Neither did ANN MARIE who was so caring and who I spoke to on many occassions. UNTILL I HAD MY SURGERY AND SOMEONE HAD MY MONEY> Then I wasn't important any more. IS THAT YOU??

I AM IN SHOCK!!! THAT IS ALL THAT I CAN SAY!!

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It's like a soap opera! Wowza....

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Do not repeat your post like that! One is perfectly fine to get your message across, by repeating your message You are spamming this site.

And if you are not careful you will be locked out of this site too.

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Ann Marie it is my honest opinion...YOU NEED HELP!

Do not beleive a word you just typed 6 times What's up with that?

How dare you come here and bash Kristie like that and put her personal life here for all of us to read.

Belighter will be finished after this post...you just did yourself a huge injustice to yourself and your business, how un professional you are.

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