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Hi I'm new to the forum, my Gastric Sleeve surgery is literally many months away. But it never hurts to start learning now. I'm in a program where I have to try to lose on my own with a low carb diet they provided for 3 months. If I'm successful, I move to the next phase which is 6 - 9 weeks of a different lower calorie diet, psych evals, medical testing, doctor approvals, and physical therapy. If all of that goes well, then I move to the surgery phase. I have a choice of bypass or sleeve, but I'm choosing sleeve because I will have a copay and the sleeve is cheaper, also its less risk. I hope it will be the right choice because I need something that is truly going to last, but my understanding is if I do what I'm told and follow the plan future stretching will be minimum. In the midst of all of this I'm also in a financial crisis that I won't go into detail on but getting the money for the copay is going to be a stretch. But I have plans and will follow through with Gods help. I need this surgery, I'm on 15 medications a day. I'm 55, at this rate seeing 65 don't seem to have very good odds. I have tried every thing, even losing up to 100 pounds before... but I always gain it back plus more... typical yo yo. I'm praying this will be the missing tool I need to help me keep it off for good this time. Anyway the program I'm in will pay my copay back if I keep the weight off for 3 years and stay in their program following their appointments, etc. during that time. Also they provide all sort of support through out the 3 years so its a really good plan. But that is all I can really say about it at this time as it a clinical trial. I'm hoping that getting the copay back at the end of 3 years will help motivate me to keep the weight off as well. Anyway I'm looking forward to meeting and chatting as I go through this journey.

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If you want to do it, you will make it happen. All good things come to those who wait. The time will fly by and before you know it your surgery date will be here.

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You took the first steps and have the good sense to realize you need some support. Maybe having a financial investment will help with your success. We all have the same ultimate goal, but we are all individuals with different health issues, different doctors, and even different countries! I am usually more of a reader than a poster, but I am trying to get out there a little more because I think it will help me be successful and accountable. Hope to see your continued posts.

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Welcome! I'm 53 and wish I'd done this several years ago when a doctor first recommended it. Start saving - even just loose change adds up over months!

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FWIW - here's my story. I was 55 when I had my surgery in August 2016. At my highest recorded weight I was 271.5, but looking at pictures, I think I was probably over 300 at my heaviest. I am 5'3". I'm bone on bone in both knees and had terrible asthma. I did this in part to have my knees replaced because my surgeon wanted my BMI under 35 when I had my knees done to reduce the risk of complications.

I had my sleeve done and now, almost 2 years later, I'm down 110 pounds, I fence (as in en garde) 5 hours a week. My ortho doesn't think I'll need to have my knees done until I'm in my late 60s. I work with a personal trainer and I can deadlift more than my bodyweight (my personal record is 180 pounds - I currently weigh 162). My body fat is down to 31%, which for a post-menopausal woman is excellent, but I'm working toward 26% - when I hit 26, I'll schedule my plastics for my abdomen. (If I had it done now - which my plastics guy would do - I would get to the 26% easily.

It is never too late. It is worth every bit. It is work, but I have never felt better in my life and in my youth I was an Olympic caliber athlete. It is a long road. Do it one day at a time.

You've got this. We've got your back.

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Good on you to do your research, exact reason I searched for this place. Folks here are great on info giving and the support you will get is awesome. The program your involved with sounds like a win. You seem like your motivated to stick with it so it will work out fine. Keep sharing your experience with it, I'm sure it will help others. Good luck on your journey.

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On ‎4‎/‎28‎/‎2018 at 9:18 PM, Diana_in_Philly said:

FWIW - here's my story. I was 55 when I had my surgery in August 2016. At my highest recorded weight I was 271.5, but looking at pictures, I think I was probably over 300 at my heaviest. I am 5'3". I'm bone on bone in both knees and had terrible asthma. I did this in part to have my knees replaced because my surgeon wanted my BMI under 35 when I had my knees done to reduce the risk of complications.

I had my sleeve done and now, almost 2 years later, I'm down 110 pounds, I fence (as in en garde) 5 hours a week. My ortho doesn't think I'll need to have my knees done until I'm in my late 60s. I work with a personal trainer and I can deadlift more than my bodyweight (my personal record is 180 pounds - I currently weigh 162). My body fat is down to 31%, which for a post-menopausal woman is excellent, but I'm working toward 26% - when I hit 26, I'll schedule my plastics for my abdomen. (If I had it done now - which my plastics guy would do - I would get to the 26% easily.

It is never too late. It is worth every bit. It is work, but I have never felt better in my life and in my youth I was an Olympic caliber athlete. It is a long road. Do it one day at a time.

You've got this. We've got your back.

Oh my gosh, talk about inspiration! Yes I read your post and my mouth dropped open, that is frigging amazing results! One can only hope I can be as successful, thank you for sharing your journey!

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Thank you everyone! Your words are truly in encouraging. I plan to learn as much as I can and I'm so glad I found this site!

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    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
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      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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