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I hate it when people post just to post.....

TerriDoodle

By TerriDoodle, in The Lounge

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travelgirl    3

travelgirl
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What I want to know is, how can her doctor diagnose her malnutrition issues, treat her for them, and then not understand what it is that she's doing to herself?

Crap on a cracker.

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anonemouse    1

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What I want to know is, how can her doctor diagnose her malnutrition issues, treat her for them, and then not understand what it is that she's doing to herself?

Crap on a cracker.

It's Huacuz. If you've seen his reputation, the whole damn thing makes SO much sense, unfortunately.

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Oregondaisy    2,019

Oregondaisy
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She makes it sound like she's leaving...............Can't wait to hear the next installment.

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Oregondaisy    2,019

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I can't believe he told her it's just stress when she can't hold Water down. What kind of doctor does not suggest at least a slight unfill?

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anonemouse    1

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... im really trying to hold my tongue about the whole malnutrition 'issue' on that thread ...

someone ... anyone... ???

DO IT! :lol:

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Chickie    15

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... im really trying to hold my tongue about the whole malnutrition 'issue' on that thread ...

someone ... anyone... ???

Dude. I would, but I don't want people thinking I run after her attacking her malnourished ass.

I do think she is a very poor example of a bandster, and I actually feel sorry for her. She can't see how sick this is going to make her.

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2bthinagn    3

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but I found what you all are talking about. I think.

Laurend-I hadnt been on here for awhile, your numbers are looking good!

I am at a standstill, and went to get another fill 3-31. Now I have next to no restriction, I feel like I am sliding down hill backwards here. I wonder if he took some accidently instead of putting some in? Does that happen very often?

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She Smiles    2

She Smiles
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I can't believe he told her it's just stress when she can't hold Water down. What kind of doctor does not suggest at least a slight unfill?

I'm just without words about the whole situation with this person you're talking about :lol:

Edited by She Smiles

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babygrl1234    6

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Now, instead of having my "stop" for eating, I have an added plus of when I get really restricted...that is my "stop" for stress. When that happens I know to take a break, to take it easy....calgon take me away!

Who knew!

And the way she has described her problems lately I would venture to believe she is stressed 24/7. Oh goodness golly gee what a life.

In all seriousness though I really hope she gets some help that she needs. It is pretty obvious she still has some major food issues and before it turns into full blown anorexia she really needs to do something about it.

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She Smiles    2

She Smiles
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What I don't understand is that she asks for advice "what should I do about X" and several people write back "to sort out X you should do Y" and their responses MAKE SENSE, but she apparently does nothing. Because its not the answer she wants, I guess.....?

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losingjusme    12

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i dunno guys, im truly at a loss for words on this one. i mean i have words i guess, i just cant use them cause i'd probably get the boot...

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babygrl1234    6

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What I don't understand is that she asks for advice "what should I do about X" and several people write back "to sort out X you should do Y" and their responses MAKE SENSE, but she apparently does nothing. Because its not the answer she wants, I guess.....?

I think it is just that. She is looking for ways to justify her behavior. Even if she has one person tell her it is okay to behave that way and 100 that tell her it is unhealthy. It is not about actually getting the help it is about her finding someone to agree with her because on some level she knows what she is doing is not healthy. Hopefully she can figure it out and get some help.

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She Smiles    2

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Well anyone that tells her she's ok and doing the right thing needs help as much as she does!

I don't get what part of "you have malnutrition" doesn't make a person go "shit, maybe I need to reassess things here"

My mind just boggles!!! :confused2:

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Chickie    15

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Well anyone that tells her she's ok and doing the right thing needs help as much as she does!

I don't get what part of "you have malnutrition" doesn't make a person go "shit, maybe I need to reassess things here"

My mind just boggles!!! :confused2:

It makes perfect sense if she is displaying Anorexic behavior. And a lot of people here are stuck so far up her ass they can't see daylight. Seeing sense here is uncommon.

I do have to question why we are supposed to NOT talk about trying to get to / getting to a healthy BMI because some people don't want to / can't get to a healthy BMI?

Why are we supposed to be sensitive to people who call a healthy BMI ugly and unattractive?

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